On May 20, 2018, I watched this old movie comfortably in a private cinema.
At first, the waiter said that the film was too old and there was no library. Later, when he was about to change it to "The Traveler in Time and Space", the waiter remembered that "Long Dreams of Covered Bridge" was stored in the customer's pre-ordered plate, so he finally watched this classic.
ps. The reservation service is very good. If you want to prepare a perfect movie night for your close people, it will be foolproof. Prevention rushed over in a hurry and found that the movie I wanted to watch was not available.
Private cinema is divided into small, medium and large packages to meet the needs of different numbers of people. Personally, I feel that the price of online movie tickets has also increased collectively this year. The good price of a movie ticket of more than ten yuan has disappeared, which is basically around 30. And the membership price of the private cinema I often go to is 54 yuan. It is more cost-effective for two people to go together, and it is better than the public cinema. such as distractions. Basically, it is a simple configuration of projection + sofa, but some of them are close to the feeling of watching movies at home, which is more personal.
I have heard of it before, because the "derailment" plot has caused some moral discussions, but I will not comment on this, reality is one thing, art is one thing, just like the movie has cheating plot, but it is not to encourage you to live in reality It is also derailed. People have their own set of three views. If you watch a movie, you will be led by the nose. Then you have your own principles.
My focus is on the direction of the attitude of the two in this relationship.
When I first saw her, Aunt Mei felt a little girlish throbbing, and would hide in the crevices of the covered bridge to peek at the photographer. This was some heartbeat.
I think the first time the two of them went to the covered bridge was the most beautiful, just like the beginning of everything.
Having dinner together that night was very romantic. At this time, Aunt Mei had the idea of starting this illicit relationship, but the photographer was very rational, especially after seeing everyone’s dislike and rejection of Lucy in the cafe, he felt that he could not give Aunt May caused this distress.
So the photographer persuaded Aunt Mei well, probably saying: You are a good woman, and you will recall later that this will be something you regret.
But Aunt Mei was very crazy about love and said: I'm not afraid, as long as we have it for a long time and love each other, I'm afraid of gossip.
Part 1: The photographer was very rational and advised Aunt May not to cross the border. Aunt Mei said that to love is to love bravely.
Well, then the two had a romantic night. Her romantic daughter reads Aunt Mei's diary and thinks that her mother is a very good writer of pornographic novels.
The morning after the romantic night, facing the return of Aunt May's husband and child the next day, the two began to consider the end of their relationship.
Aunt Mei began to get anxious and asked the photographer: What are your rules? If you are not used to sleeping, don't ask, or occasionally write a letter to greet you. Are you hooking up with women all over the world? Maybe you will chat with the next woman. I.
The photographer is serious: I have never had any rules, I am not a libertine, I have feelings for you for the first time, and I have never had it before. You see, you can't leave all this and leave me, so I only have Quietly leave before your family comes back.
Part 2. Aunt Mei became anxious, afraid that she was being played with and fell asleep, so she needed "recognition and commitment". The photographer expressed her intentions for Aunt Mei and did not dare to take her away, for fear that she would regret leaving her family.
Aunt Mei packed up the package, packed the small suitcase, and was ready to run away. At the last table, he said: My husband is a good person, I can't treat him like this, my little daughter is not yet an adult, they will always live under the tongues of the people of the town.
So Aunt May decided not to leave. The photographer said, maybe you can't stand this kind of life when they come back, and you want to leave with me at that time, so I will stay in the town for a few days and wait for your final decision. .
Part 3. The passion recedes, and the reality comes on stage. Everyone is not an isolated individual, but the sum of various social relationships (political knowledge points for postgraduate entrance exams), so they begin to weigh. When the photographer expressed his sincerity and decided to give up everything, Aunt Mei began to consider the practical significance, retreated, and prepared to just treat it as a sweet dream.
Classic scene: In the heavy rain, the photographer applied to stare at Aunt May. The photographer's car was waiting at the red light in front. Aunt Mei and her husband's car were in the back. Aunt Mei was pulling the door handle, struggling in her heart: whether to choose family or love.
In the end, Aunt May chose family, and the photographer chose to be loyal to love.
Part 4. There is only one love in a lifetime, and some people will retreat.
After the words:
These emotional tugs are no different from real men and women.
1. It is almost impossible to achieve complete equality in a relationship. You can't ask the other person to give back the same amount. As long as you don't feel like you're giving too much, it's balanced if you feel your self-esteem is damaged.
2. Girls need commitment and confession. Later, during the breakfast quarrel, Aunt May felt uneasy and anxious because the photographer hadn't clearly stated her intentions before.
Many boys think that I'm so good to you. It's not obvious that I like you.
But girls need boys to speak out, and always feel that confession is the only way to truly confirm their intentions and feel at ease. This may be related to the girls' sense of ritual, such as how many days they have known each other, how many days they have been together, and how to commemorate these.
3. If a relationship is not very close to reality from the beginning, it will hit the rocks when it touches reality.
This is also why the very right post said before that he was getting married and wanted to buy a house, because he had to break up because of the problem of buying a house.
I don't think it's blasphemous to have some money involved in a relationship. If you want to build a dreamy love story on top of reality, then look for a fairy tale, but the end of the fairy tale is: From then on, the prince and princess lived happily together.
Like this story, at the beginning, when the two had the most feeling, they didn't think about Aunt Mei and their family, and finally they started to quarrel after thinking about this layer. This is also the conflict point of the whole story.
If you usually don't know the other party's economic situation at all, don't weigh each other's ability to bear, and ask for sky-high prices in a relationship, this is not very cute.
If you feel that the other party's economic level is not good, and you can't bear the hardships of living with him, it's understandable. If you feel that the two of you can fight together, so much the better.
The most duplicitous thing is that they clearly think that they cannot be together because they are poor.
Any decision is rational in a relationship, because it is your choice, and you need to bear the consequences of it. Everyone is responsible.
4. Talk about the state of Aunt Mei as a housewife: she lives a stable life and wants some excitement in her life.
I also choose a life and envy b life.
Here is a good drama recommended, "Tu Mi"
I photographed the possible life of the heroine after she chose a and b. If she chose a, she would wonder if it was better to choose b. This drama tells you, don't be envious of wasting time, any kind of life will have trouble, just say trouble is different.
But it doesn't mean that you don't think about making decisions at all, it's too radical.
Life is a constant choice, but I can't completely deny the current life. I feel that if I chose b at that time, I will live a good life, and it will not be as bad as it is now.
Any choice is based on your present, never deny your previous life, learn to accept it, and then make the decision that is most suitable for you at the moment, and then go on without regret.
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