You have to learn to be at peace with yourself

Rozella 2022-04-24 07:01:12

I didn't expect that at the end of this movie, I would cry out on a cold night alone. Seeing this movie from a woman's point of view, it's fantastic.

The last few movies have been watched in pieces in fragmented time, and I can't concentrate on watching them, as did Frances Ha. This definitely diminishes the viewing experience. What's more, it's still a black-and-white film, with a long, long-winded opening and a huge amount of lines, so it's no wonder that many people say it's a contemporary version of "Manhattan."

The core of this movie is about the relationship between two girlfriends. There is always one person who is more inseparable from the other, there is always a winner and a loser. As an out-and-out pessimist, I'm always hopelessly substituting for the loser heroine. 27 years old, not good at socializing, always saying the wrong thing, always appearing too mean, and can only be a ketamine in the dance company. I can't make ends meet, I don't want to switch to an administrative job in a dance company (I'm a dancer...), and I end up hiding in the university, living in an idle student dormitory, working part-time in the school, avoiding the world, and pretending to be "in front of everyone" I'm doing very well". The negative energy exploded, and her best friend gradually left her. She met an excellent boyfriend and moved to Japan together. All these, she gradually heard in the cross circle of social circles. In the common social circle, girlfriends are loved by everyone. Everyone says that girlfriends are smart, but she... is always out of time.

I always say that when you are in negative energy and you are not consciously trying to adjust, all of your things will affect each other, everything will reach a low point, your career will not go well, your love will fail, and even friendship will be lost. It's not dramatic, everything about you is relevant. You have no choice but to find your own way.

One day, in the relationship between girlfriends, one party will hate the other party's entanglement, compare each other, be jealous of each other, and slander each other. All women have experienced this kind of girlfriend relationship. Perhaps all women experience this kind of girlfriend relationship throughout their lives.

Until she met her best friend who came back from Japan and her fiance at the alumni meeting. The drunk best friend was not as happy as she showed, and they lay on the simple single bed in the dormitory and talked all night, she said that she was also jealous of you, you Also jealous of her happiness, and then untie the knot.

Then I tried to reconcile with myself, stepped out of the horns, returned to the dance company, accepted the administrative work provided by my boss, continued to do choreography in my spare time, and finally put my work on the stage.

The first part was so bad, so bad living, so bad that I was worried why I accidentally picked another movie about loser. Constantly assuming roles, constantly torturing yourself.

Fortunately, in the end, you have to learn to reconcile with yourself. There's nothing impossible, there aren't that many insurmountable boundaries, really.

Well, my girlfriends, those who feel that they are not living well, let's work together. At 30, we must learn to reconcile with ourselves.

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The heroine Greta Gerwig herself also participated in the script, which is believed to be one of the reasons why this movie understands women so well.

Also learned a word in this movie: undateable, date killer.

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Frances Ha quotes

  • Lev Shapiro: [wrapped in a towel, walking between Frances and Sophie] I'm just trying to get your attention.

  • Benji: I think it's a great day. I ate an egg bagel that Lev's slut made me. I internet-acquired three pairs of very rare Ray Bans. I'm doing awesome.