A movie that has been in the Baidu cloud disk for a long time, and I have never opened it to watch it. It seems that people are so strange that they will not be so surprised when they get good things, so let it go. "My Father, My Son" is such a "good thing". Because of its high score, I try to find it. Resources, resources are found, they are forgotten.
The story told in the film is very simple. Sadik went against his father's wishes, did not study agriculture, inherited the family's farm, and abandoned his father's marriage plan. Instead, he chose to run away from home and become an anarchist reporter. Just half a lifetime. In the event of a military coup in Turkey, his wife gave birth to a son, but he died of excessive bleeding. Not long after the son was born, Sadik was also arrested and jailed. Sadik returned to his hometown with his son when he was seven years old. Although there was a lot of friction, the relationship with his father gradually improved. Seeing that the family was about to live a peaceful life, Sadik died of illness, gave his son to his father, and expressed his original intention to go home— - I want to give my son a "home".
A very simple story. While we don't live in a time of political instability and coups, Sadik's story plays out in many of our families. The seemingly old-fashioned and stubborn father, the mother who loves the child, the son who pursues freedom, the grandson who is lovely and sensible... The backgrounds of the stories are different, but the resonance they can resonate is the same. When the father patiently explained the "horsesshoe" to his grandson; when his son and wife found out that they took the initiative to talk to the grandson and pretended to be angry, but went to the bookstore to buy the comic book that the grandson liked to read; when he bought the comic book back, it was out of face, and he went to the bookstore. When the wife lied that it was just some kind of material; when she learned of her son's illness, she was speechless all the way, and when she choked up in the cafe...it was the father expressing his love in his clumsy way. In fact, how can the son not understand? If the son does not understand, he will not use his drunkenness to open up his mother and his child to talk to the father alone when he knows that his time is short. Break the ice. They are all seven-footed men. They are cold on the surface, but their hearts are already turbulent.
Especially when he saw his father ripped off his clothes after his son's death, fell to the ground, and blamed himself for his son's departure; and finally pushed open the door of the secret room to show the last softness in his heart. To everyone - when I played the growth video he recorded for his son, the tears could not stop. Behind the very light and light video, there is a very heavy and heavy father's love!
The main reason why I like this movie so much is probably because my father also has such an image. They are unsmiling, old-fashioned, and even have some concepts that are so out of tune with this era. They are strict with their children's education. I hope that children can live their lives according to their plans for them, and they will not express their feelings to their children... If not My mother told me that I wouldn't know. When I first fell in love, I told my father on the first day. At that time, my father stayed up all night and secretly cried for a long time, just because my boyfriend was from the Northwest and was away from our house. Too far, my father began to worry about me in the future (although that relationship only lasted more than a month, it turned out that my father thought too far). If it wasn't for my grandmother telling me, I wouldn't have known that when I was born, my father was very happy and busy. Because it was the first time to be a father, he was nervous and happy. At that time, there was a patriarchal atmosphere in the countryside. It is serious and the family planning policy is strict. In order to have another boy, someone suggested that I should be put in foster care, but my father was anxious, he firmly disagreed, and he always took me by their side. My father always attached great importance to my life. Education, even though I'm a girl, he sent me to the best elementary, middle, and high school, and has always been proud of me...
From childhood to adulthood, many people say that I am a child of someone else's family, with excellent grades, well-behaved and sensible. But at home, I'm not so well-behaved - when I disagree with my father, I will directly contradict him, get angry with him or even cold war. I know that I also have moments of chilling his heart. But I knew that my father never really blamed me. Just because he is a father, how can there be any parents who really can't get along with their children.
At the end of the film, in Sadik's child's sweet dream, Sadik said to his son, "When you grow up, you won't need me. Knowing that you have a home, I will be happy forever." In yesterday's issue of "Longing for Life", after dinner, Huang Lei, He Jiong, Zhang Jie and the others were chatting in the room, talking about children, Huang Lei thoughtfully said, "When children grow up, they don't belong to you. Now, she belongs to herself, we just need to give us enough love when she grows up." Actually, it's cruel, isn't it, Dad? You got married in a hurry at your best age, and soon you had me again, and before you could truly enjoy your own free life, you were about to throw yourself into the torrent of supporting your family. When I was the age of your marriage, I was spending my family's money and enjoying college without worry, while you were taking on the burden of a family. At the same age, I think about which takeout to order tomorrow, and you want to know where the money for my daughter's milk powder will be tomorrow. Really cruel, daddy?
As he grows up every year, he has already entered adulthood and is about to enter a new stage in his life. What I think about is no longer how to stay away from my hometown and travel alone. What I think about is to be closer to you, and to make my parents live better with my own efforts. In the past, because I was young and ignorant, I just wanted to go out step by step. Now, I am rushing back step by step, going home, and relying on the place called "hometown"!
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