To be Frida, to be stronger.

Retta 2022-10-04 20:43:44



Female painter Frida Kahlo was born in Mexico City in 1907 at the beginning of the last century. Her cheeks were thin and her eyebrows were joined together, which was a rare face. The two connected eyebrows are a long river, which confirms her tenacity and surly.

She wrote a book and made a movie based on her story, and I don't think male audiences will like these books and movies very much. Female audiences should be fascinated by it. Rather, Frida lived as every woman wanted to be, and wanted to be Frida but couldn't, but adoration could never cover up.

In the last century, women have always been weak. They have no advantage in terms of physical or social status. Frida was born in such a big environment and suffered two of the most important accidents in her life.

"I've had two accidents in my life. One was a car accident and one was you. And you were the worst," Frida told his husband and only husband, Diego Rivera.

Because of the car accident, her spine, collarbone, ribs were broken, her pelvis was broken, and her right leg was broken in 11 places. These broken bones are smashed and reconnected, assembled and smashed again. She mocked herself like a construction toy. And what is pain? — "I don't know what a life without pain is like."

To his husband Diego Rivera, Frida said, he was the worst, worse than a car accident. In fact this is not true. Her husband betrayed her physically, but only because of his strong-man nature, and his heart always belonged to Frida. Essentially they are one person. It was Frida who taught his husband Diego what true love is, and it was Diego who brought Frida into the world of painting. They are their respective muses.

The attitude towards the car accident and her husband directly shows Frida's character: she can endure pain, so she is strong and brave; she can endure betrayal, so she is more assertive and loving. She is also a gifted painter. Talented, assertive, brave, and determined, such a woman. I adore you.

In Frida's world, nothing seems impossible. She is like a bird in the sky pursuing the free sky and breathing the free air. She flirts with socialites to dance with, she wears men's clothes for family portraits with her family, she dates beautiful and sexy women in America, and she falls in love with the Communist leader Leon Trotsky, who has come to take refuge at home. She is the most romantic woman of that era, everyone likes her, loves her, she is omnipotent, she symbolizes freedom and noble love.

Even though she was dragging a wooden prosthetic leg, even if her foot rotted and cut off one of her feet later, she was still mentally and spiritually strong. Many women are attached to men. They always say that their strength is not as good as men's and they are weak in society. This is just a fragile reason. These women are just making excuses for their laziness. Society should move forward, but the current trend is - how many women want to cry in BMW cars, how many women who want to marry into wealthy families after plastic surgery, how many women who don't want to work hard and only think about men, how many brains A woman who has no culture except for a bag. If you are not independent in thought, then being oppressed is inevitable. No one can give you what you want but yourself.

Unmarried women should work hard, read more books, and married women should work even harder, not to become a puppet who only cooks. If you want to get married, get married, if you don't want to get married, don't get married. Love a man if you want to love a man, and love a woman if you want to love a woman. Live as you want, live as you want. Xiao Hong had this kind of thought long ago, but unfortunately she was always a loser emotionally. Thinking and doing are two different things. But first, be conscious.

Men and women are born equal. They have the same height in thought, and they should have progressed and developed together. It is meaningless to have to distinguish the strengths and weaknesses. Just do the best you can.

We will never be Frida, but we can always be on our way to being the best version of ourselves.

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Frida quotes

  • Diego Rivera: It was just a fuck. I've given more affection in a handshake.

  • Diego Rivera: I'm physiologically incapable of fidelity.

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