The Epic of a Top Female Diaosi - Marilyn Monroe

Justina 2022-11-12 21:19:54

Note: Regarding the term "diaosi", due to the different opinions on the popularization and posting on the Internet, it can only be comprehensively understood as: a hard-working

youth with a hard-working background, a hard-looking appearance, and a seemingly hard-working future.

Therefore, the "diaosi" mentioned in this article all belong to this meaning. If you deviate from the true meaning of "diaosi", please forgive me.


Written in "My Week with Monroe" after watching the movie, non-acting discussion academic articles——


I have always been unfamiliar with the "Gao Fu Shuai" group. According to conservative analysis, I should not be out of sour grapes, but blood. The unsettling factor in the film is destined not to look up to this kind. The male protagonist who is known as "Gao Daquan" in the old domestic movies feels boring, not enough taste, and lacks a sense of ups and downs. For example, the goddess-level "Bai Fumei" is also not my dish. On the other hand, diaosi are a kind of style, easy to have stories.

In one weekend, after watching this year's Oscar entry film "The Week with Monroe", I suddenly felt that Marilyn Monroe seemed to be a female diaosi, but she was not only not ugly, but also a little too dick , so that people ignore her poor background and the fate of the diaosi laid by her rough fate.



Growing up in an orphanage with a neurotic mother. During adolescence, they lived in different families, and lived a miserable life of being under the shelter of others and even encountering violence and sexual harassment. In this way, the destined to be extraordinary Marilyn, formerly known as Norma Jane Mortyson, before she began to shine in Vanity Fair, her childhood experience of displacement and extreme lack of love made her unable to control her emotions from beginning to end. Willful and naughty like a child, he asks a lot of other people's eyes to make up for the lack of childhood.

Everyone knows that apart from genes, childhood is the most important time for a person. It can even determine the direction of a person's future path, especially the formation of personality. Generally speaking, children who grow up in normal families will have more stable emotions and more natural mental development than single parents or orphans. Don't rely too much on others, and don't overdo your own behavior. As for Monroe, many of her actions after she became an adult and even became a big star were the evil influence of her abnormal childhood. In other words, her mind was still in the childhood stage for many times and did not grow with age. Her way of thinking and behavior, she will still act recklessly like a child, regardless of the consequences.

However, Monroe is an extremely smart woman, so even with a childhood in such a situation, she can still roam Hollywood and Vanity Fair as she pleases. I think, in the early stage, she should understand how she should act, she should be restrained in time, and she should learn to have goals and direction. Otherwise, she would not read a lot of books on philosophy and aesthetics to improve herself and shape her temperament. According to Michelle, who played Monroe in this film, Monroe likes to read books such as "The Thinking Body" very much. , from which to study and master how to pose a seductive shape. In fact, her frowns, smiles, every move, and even the tone of her voice are scientifically calculated and designed, and then through her absorption and control, these are accurately interpreted to create a natural and extremely charming sexy goddess . Hollywood has always maintained a rigorous and harsh attitude in star-making, and is willing to spend all its money. For the current one, the rough marketing that strives to become popular for generations of travelers should really learn from it.



As a representative of the bottom female diaosi, Marilyn is typically brainy and hardworking. It's just that the effect of the drugs in the later stage of helplessness, coupled with her own experience, made her emotionally unable to control herself for a long time, resulting in the inability to fully exert her talents. Otherwise, she will definitely be a role model for all female diaosi, and she will not always be regarded as a tragic actress under the destruction of Hollywood like she is now. Compared with the movies she has acted in, Monroe enjoys and plays the role of "Marilyn Monroe" the most. She exhausted her efforts to carve out such a beauty and used it to attract all eyes. To make up for the neglected and humiliated childhood. Vanity Fair doesn't like pure puppets, and Monroe is meeting their appetite, she's a director who volunteers to play puppets.



"They all said they loved Monroe like this, but once they found out that I was not what they imagined, they all left."

After the marital crisis, she read this sentence with tears in her eyes and aggrieved , not only hurt Colin clark's heart, but also made the audience feel ups and downs. But how can I wait for the turbulence in my heart to calm down, she has changed to a pure smile on her side, took off her white shirt smartly, pushed her jade body to the quiet lake without any scruples, and had a dream with Colin in her mouth. Long real date.



Vivien Leigh's lover, the famous director and great actor, Lawrence Oliver, after a bad encounter with Marilyn, persuaded Colin, who had fallen in love with her, with a little dissatisfaction:

"Marilyn never needed to be redeemed. She A woman who is too powerful."



There are two scenes in the film. First, when Monroe was besieged by students at Colin's school, she was holding Colin's arm like a little woman in love, telling about her troubles at work and her own difficulties. Put on a confident and professional smile, put it on Colin's ear, and said as if asking a question, "Should I be Her Again?" posture. Colin stood aside understandingly, a smile that seemed to be proud.



Another scene is when Monroe returns from a day out with Colin. It was still sweet when they went naked together in the suburbs, but on the way back, Monroe had already put away her emotions and avoided the hand that Colin was trying to hold. Facing out the window alone, the autumn leaves reflected from the glass to her face, no longer golden, only withered yellow.



These few seconds of shots show that Monroe can perfectly convert flirting and distraction with "job work". When the listener is still sighing for her difficulty, she has already invested in the next shot.



Has she longed for ordinary people's homes, that kind of cuddling with each other, not seeking blessings and honor, but only asking for you to accompany in this life, is it the blueprint in her mind? It must have been, but it flashed like a shooting star. So does she like to play Marilyn? The answer is also yes. Because this "role" can give her everything she lacked in childhood, except love, which she thinks she can also get.

She wants everything, so she never grows up.



I learned from Colin's mouth that Vivien Leigh, who was very elegant at the time, also had concerns that her husband Lawrence would have an affair with the "succubus" in front of him, but the fact is that it didn't take long for Marilyn's unstable mood and the vice of being late for work to make Lawrence He didn't care about pity and cherish jade, and hated him to the core. Many fans of Vivien Leigh are reluctant to talk about the movie "The Dragon and the Phoenix" because her condition is very serious and her health is not good at this stage. At that time, Monroe was in a period of career transition, transitioning from an idol attempt to a powerful faction. Just like many female diaosi, Monroe, who is getting older, also understands that only strength is the last word to be invincible.

Marilyn Monroe, once the spoiled child of moviegoers and Hollywood, and the pet of the media of that era. And she knew deeply that her soul was worth less than her kisses. So she chose to continue to be a child, a pet, and a plaything. But the cruelty of God is that he gave her beauty and also gave her intelligence, so she was interpreted as ambition by herself. The applause she received from her red lips and body is far from satisfying her. Marilyn Monroe, the stunner who can win the box office just by smiling, began to yearn to become a real actor, and began to hope that she could use her acting skills, which she has been using all her life. But the ability that has never been valued has made himself famous. But who needs her acting skills.



Those old-fashioned female diaosi who are not authentic diaosi—

perhaps out of nostalgia and pursuit of mystery, many women, including me, have a strong curiosity and yearning for the female stars of that era.

Whether charming like Marilyn, elegant like Hepburn, or intellectual like Jacqueline, these three can literally be called "white and rich": white, rich, and of course beautiful. In fact, to a certain extent, they all belong to the category of diaosi, but they know how to raise their prices, know how to manage themselves, and the most important thing is to know how to play their role as a female diaosi, which is different from the one that ordinary "Bai Fumei" and the like are best at—— Survival wisdom.



First, Mrs. Jacqueline. The truth of her life experience is definitely not "a noble descendant with pure French blood" as mentioned in her resume. In fact, it was in the process of seducing Kennedy, she chose what she liked and deliberately avoided talking about it, which was very despised at the time. of Irish ancestry, but exaggerated his French ancestry. It was only afterwards that the discerning, prestigious and politically ambitious Kennedy family recognized Jacqueline, a talented and "prominent family".



In childhood, as her mother left the bankrupt Playboy, Jacqueline's beloved father, and remarried to the wealthy generation, she also successfully became a socialite and entered the aristocratic circle. But in her heart, she knew that she was different from a real lady. It is this kind of self-knowledge that keeps her vigilant and reserved at all times, never letting herself show a hint of being a lady, and demanding herself more strictly than a real lady. Her introverted and meticulous appearance to outsiders is due to the genuineness that is not really "Bai Fumei". Later, she won the favor of the people with her self-discipline for many years. At that time, who would have the heart to track whether she was really famous?



That's why, many times seeing the real eldest lady can be unscrupulous and not like the eldest lady, while those girls who dream of becoming the eldest lady have a ladylike air all the time. Or, this can also explain the reason why shemales are more feminine than women. .



However, Mrs. Jacqueline is not completely a female diaosi. After all, her father was a Wall Street elite before going bankrupt, and her stepfather was also a super rich. So she is not a typical example. It can only be regarded as a diaosi among celebrities.



Miss Hepburn, when she was old, people still loved to call her that, as if they were calling the three girls next door. Different from Jacqueline's insistence on "French blood", Hepburn is a descendant of a duchess who really has the blood of the British royal family. This "three girls" who could have been a princess had experienced the baptism of World War II. I heard that she also worked as a messenger. In fact, it's at risk." The female diaosi. It's just that a large part of a person's mentality and character are genetically determined, so even if she has the hard-working energy of a female diaosi, when difficulties come, her natural compassion and optimism enable her to maintain an angelic innocence.



If you don't wear the little black dress, you are Audrey, and you are not born into a wealthy family or a princess. Like Miss Hepburn, a struggling young woman with the spirit of a diaosi and a princess, she should definitely be a factor that should be set as an example by commoners like me. Not only her elegant dress, but also her elegant way of doing things and not deliberately flaunting herself as "white and rich". The real princess can still maintain her demeanor when thrown to the public and try her best to live a good life.



Off topic, let Hepburn on the fashion altar of the classic "Breakfast at Tiffany's", Holly originally intended to belong to Marilyn Monroe, but Hepburn finally grabbed the opportunity. Just imagine, if Marilyn plays the role, it's not hard to imagine that this should be one of the works that set off her savage charm, instead of being crowned as a must-see movie for fashion people as it is now. Judging from the fact that one movie can cultivate batches of followers, Hepburn, who has a permanent 21-inch waistline and big, ignorant eyes, has indeed successfully shaped the image of a fashionable gold-worshipping woman. And her own indelible elegance adds a sense of mystery to Holly's character.



Finally, I talked about the female diaosi who meet the standard except not ugly - Marilyn Monroe. Unlike the above two, although they have the experience of female diaosi, some of their bloodlines are still white and rich. But the goddess Monroe really relied on herself completely, under the condition of no background and no money, she struggled to make a bloody road, and gorgeously ranked among the "Bai Fumei". The first reason is of course related to her own talent and God's blessing. An old friend, who claims to be a senior female diaosi, has no hesitation in her pursuit of improving her life. The goal is to strive to live a life of "a rich and handsome husband + filling a small treasury" through his own efforts.



So I think the second reason why Monroe can stand out from Yunyun Diaosi is that she is willing to cut herself and desperately climb up. This is not something everyone can do. For example, she gave up the goal that many female diaosi longed for and strived for, "a wealthy family and a beautiful husband", and three hasty marriages did not give her a home; her short-lived love with Colin could have achieved her "being truly loved by others." "Dream", but she also killed it with her own hands. When she thought she was getting better and better, her ambitions eventually swallowed her up. Competing with Jacqueline for the first lady not only failed, but it was even rumored that Qingqing's life was ruined because of it.



“I woke up in the moring and Marylin was standing nude, watching the sun comes up. I looked at her, and I said, you know marylin, I give anything to be like you. she was petrified, and said, Sue dont say that. I give anything to be like you. People respect you. "



This is a dialogue from a friend of Marilyn, who and her family gave Marilyn the warmth of a normal family during her lifetime. It is also from this dialogue that Marilyn is good at pleasing others' personality and her unfulfilled desire for the rest of her life.



When one day she got tired of the way of life that she didn't really respect, when she felt that the spotlight had been scorched to the point where the ashes were burning, she wanted to be a real queen, she wanted to control the value of her soul , unfortunately we didn't see how she would manipulate it, or maybe she already told us.





Say goodbye to female diaosi and disdain Bai Fumei -



after watching her "Seven Years to Stop Itching" and "You Dragon and Phoenix", you must admit that no one cares about her acting skills. It's worth the whole movie. Whether she is an acting school, I dare not judge, but she is definitely a superstar, an absolute charm that grabs people's attention. In the very popular inspirational book "Aura" a while ago, Marilyn's super strong attraction was mentioned. The author talked about when he participated in a certain party in Hollywood in his childhood. He was originally a star from all walks of life, but as soon as she appeared on the stage, she perfectly deduced what it means to be truly "loved by thousands of people, and the harem has no color." ". No one living at present has seen Concubine Yang, but at least someone has proved that such a verse can indeed be mastered. In this way, she easily reduced others to mosaics. In the industry of actors, some people with this hobby and talent can work, but superstars are really born.



A documentary called "Monroe: The Last Days", which tells the behind-the-scenes footage of Monroe's final work, as well as her surrounding news. At that time, she had already begun to be a little tired, and she was no longer "prosperous". The innocent and childish eyes at first were replaced by the seductive light of desire, and the plump and round face gradually weakened and slackened. The so-called Marilyn who fights the world with beauty and sexiness, not to mention herself, even the audience can't bear to witness her youth passing away. And she, who is extremely insecure in her heart, should also know this very well, so that she became irresponsible for her work later, all in order to spoil the love that she had exchanged for her beauty to the end; but her rational side told her that acting skills It is the most powerful weapon an elderly actress wants to stand on her feet. But is Marilyn still "Marilyn" without her childlike smile and sensual figure? Maybe as she said it herself:

"They all said they loved Monroe like that. But when they found out I wasn't like that, they all left."



This woman, surrounded by mysteries, left Hollywood, where she relied on and used each other, and left her short but rich life. All the mysteries left on her have not been explained so far, and after so many years of her death, new mysteries are still being exposed one after another.



The most wonderful thing about her is that she seems to be very transparent, but in fact no one really understands her. Obviously she looks fragile, but in fact she has endured the pressure of digesting others several times. She has performed a number of blockbuster films, and none of them add up to the legendary drama of her personal story. Most professionals, including Lawrence, have criticized her for her lack of acting skills; but she has spent her life interpreting stories that no one has yet read.



With a tragic life experience that all diaosi are "out of reach", he can write an epic and magnificent life. The so-called top diaosi, if so.






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My Week with Marilyn quotes

  • Sir Owen Morshead: The Queen is sorry to have missed you.

    Marilyn Monroe: Really?

    Sir Owen Morshead: Oh, yes. Why, she was only saying to me the other day, "what must it be like to be the most famous woman on earth"?

  • Spectator: [Marilyn strikes a pose] Are you somebody, mate?

    Colin Clark: No. I'm no one.