Should we always control our anger?
"Anger is not a problem that cannot be solved, it is something that protects one's rights." These words came from the mouth of the son who just turned seven. The other day we went to see the animated movie Angry Birds that was being released with our son. Adapted from a hit game, the film tells the story of a bird who was spurned by anger and finally saved the island's birds with an angry courage. On the way home, my son said this as my wife and I talked about the angry bird. At first we thought this was a naive thought of a child, and it was nothing but an open mouth. In recent days, whenever I get angry and angry when I encounter something, I always think of this sentence later.
Ever since I was a child, I have often heard old people say: "Don't be angry, anger hurts your body". When I went to school, went to college or even higher, I felt that this was very good, and I was really in a bad mood when I got angry and angry. There are always some famous people who often hang large calligraphy banners with the word "forbearance" in their homes or workplaces to control their anger. This made me feel that I should probably hold back when I was angry.
However, there is no one that convinces me about whether to stay away from anger in everything, and I always feel awkward in my heart: sometimes anger is a last resort. After watching this movie, You Qi listened to my son's feelings, and suddenly I felt a sense of enlightenment, as if a window in my heart was opened, I could breathe, and the grievances in my heart were relieved. Anger is not incapable of solving problems. In some cases, you should really pick up the weapon of anger and use this method to solve some problems. Of course, this cannot magnify the role of anger and the scope of anger. However, you can't control your anger.
People get angry easily when things go wrong. Although there is a saying that anger hurts the liver, but adopting the strategy of forbearance in everything, will it be better for the body, and more importantly, emotions and thoughts in the long run? Patience, restraining anger, makes the mood unresolved for a long time, and over time, the character is suppressed, the mood is irritable and cannot be released, and many people are often depressed because of this. I think that at certain inevitable or excessive times, venting your anger can greatly help your mood. Many people may feel the same way. This is what my wife often talks about. After the anger, think calmly, when the heart is free and no longer blocked, of course, the problem will be solved faster. It's a sign that anger can sometimes be a quick fix.
In social life, unreasonable people and unreasonable things are often encountered. Children with mild temperament are easily bullied by children with unruly temperament. Parents always say regretfully afterwards: Why don't you get angry and get angry. I remembered that my son's toys were taken away by unreasonable children when he was young, and he didn't dare to move. At that time, he felt that his character was too weak. Your own things cannot be protected, and your rights cannot be maintained. For the adult world, why not. I was born in a rural area, and my mother was an honest farmer. She often said, "A good man bullies a horse, and a horse is good at riding." I thought it was just a joke, but with the enrichment of social experience, I feel more and more that this is the truth at some point. In the face of injustice, many people dare not express their anger at work, which is the case again and again in the future. Whenever this happens, I feel as if my things have been stolen. Now that I think about it, the main reason for my failure to defend my rights is that I don't dare to be angry, I don't dare to take up the weapon of anger, and I don't use the prescription of "anger" to heal my wounded heart. When it comes to thieves, they are often encountered in crowded, hurrying, and commuting people, and thieves are the most common and rampant in the car. Most of the time, the person being stolen finds out that the person stealing something just silently covers his bag, stares, and then does nothing. Bystanders are even more irrelevant. Where did their anger go? Bystanders watched the thief get out of the car calmly without saying a word. Is it a reappearance of Lu Xun's indifferent and numb national character, or is it the constant occurrence of corruption incidents that bind people's hands and feet after doing good deeds? I thought it was probably the result of anger not being able to explode. The deep-seated reason is probably the remnants of the small peasant consciousness of the Chinese who are willing to obey orders, dare not resist due to power, and are selfish for many years. Although these deep-seated reasons cannot be eliminated on the spot, taking up courage and anger can sometimes effectively solve some problems and safeguard some rights.
Rising to national politics, the role of anger can be said to be more and more important. Political life in China has always been about upholding the will of the Holy Spirit and submissive to what comes after. The Confucian ideology of the ruler as the guide of the ministers is deeply rooted, and the bureaucratic stratum presses the next level, forming a solid pyramid-like structure. However, officials at all levels must stand the test of their superiors and obey their will in order to secure their position. The basic idea of everyone's political career is not reasonable, but only up. Occasionally, those who follow the will of God and make decisions for the people will be eliminated from the team if they are not buried in this golden tower. Only a few famous officials, either because of the need to maintain the image of the entire class in a special period, or because of the monarchy's strategy of dividing and ruling, can achieve a good start and a good end, thus becoming a beautiful talk through the ages and a role model in the excellent Chinese cultural tradition. The conditions and soil in which anger did not arise during that period. When the imperial rule was overthrown, officials at all levels in China were really angry. They rose up, talking about doctrine, talking about equality, and talking about the future, as if China had entered a peaceful and prosperous age. But soon their anger was quelled by the sweet taste of dividing the cake. This anger is temporary, just for the sake of squeezing others. At this time, however, the toiling masses were aroused and thoroughly provoked, and finally there was a new China, and a new era was entered.
Is there a natural anger gene in our national character? Should anger be an integral part of national character? Thousands of years of changing dynasties and resisting foreign aggression have proved the existence of the gene of anger. However, why is anger only remembered when the situation is out of control? Worth pondering. Perhaps our nation thinks that anger should not be part of the national character, that anger represents bad. In fact, if there is no anger, there will be no resistance, there will be no supervision, and there will be no restraint, and you will lose your due rights. Anger should be a necessary means, a powerful weapon, to correct the way for the country, to safeguard the rights of the public, and to build harmony for the society. Anger should be part of our nation's genes, and we use anger to protect the happiness of our family, the dignity of the nation, and the interests of the country!
"Anger is not the inability to solve problems." A child can understand the truth, why do adults always have to control their anger?
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