The family of origin that hinders your success

Declan 2022-04-19 09:01:57

The recent "Everything is Good" portrays the native family vividly.

It has made many people aware of the role that the family of origin plays in a child's growth.

The ending of the movie "October Sky" is beautiful, so no one cares about the family of origin that the child was born into.

If it wasn't a happy ending, he didn't have such a tenacious will, didn't meet such a good teacher, and obeyed his father's arrangement, would the final ending be a different scene. How many people would complain about this family of origin that hindered his success?

Today I want to talk about it from this perspective.

When the male protagonist said he wanted to build a rocket, his family, his dad gave him a big blow, he felt that his son was born for coal.

Every attempt and struggle of the son is futile in the eyes of the family. Although the male protagonist's mother did not raise strong objections, at least she did not fully support the child's choice.

A lot of times, the horror of the original family is not that he doesn't support you when you do things, but that he desperately pulls you down, and then feels that this is your life.

So you have to work hard to break free, otherwise it will be harder to get the result you want than to go to the sky.

Real hardships are not worth the threats from my family. I recently met a friend who doesn’t want to be a doctor in the system. She is exhausted every day. Her ambition is to continue her studies.

However, if she continues her studies, she will not have enough time, and she wants to choose to resign.

When the family found out, she was going to die, which made her not only tired physically but also mentally.

Sometimes, you don't even know what your child needs?

Yan Que knows the ambition of Honghu? Many times we can't make our parents happy, you have to choose your own life after all.

This is not disobedience, but filial piety. As long as you prove with your strength that your choice is what you want, your parents will not complain.

The way to go is to walk by yourself. At this point, I admit that I am not a very well-behaved child.

Have you ever been blocked like this, if you see it, would you like to say something?

I hope you can pay attention to me, because I want to write hard words for you to listen to.

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Extended Reading

October Sky quotes

  • Roy Lee: I'll tell you what's unbelievable... captain of the football team being jealous of you.

  • Principal Turner: Miss Riley, our job is to give these kids an education.

    Miss Riley: Mmm-hmm.

    Principal Turner: Not false hopes.

    Miss Riley: False hopes? Do you want me to sit quiet, let 'em breathe in coal dust the rest of their life?

    Principal Turner: Miss Riley, once in a while... a lucky one... will get out on a football scholarship. The rest of 'em work in the mines.

    Miss Riley: How 'bout I believe in the unlucky ones? Hmm? I have to, Mister Turner, I'd go out of my mind.