What I want to express is, when your life begins to go downhill, what kind of mentality do you face?
Looking back on my life, my goal in elementary school was to get a good junior high school entrance exam, then a good high school, then a good university, then a good job, then buy a house and a car, get married and have children, and then retire and raise children... ...isn't this the life trajectory of most people in the world?
Not sullen, not angry, not turbulent. Although boring, it does have a purpose or responsibility to guide us forward. But if one day this goal is interrupted, the trajectory of life is interrupted - lost a loved one, a career failure, a broken marriage, at this time, from the state of climbing to the state of descending, we What will happen?
Is it to live on in an inertial life, or will you find a spiritual breakthrough?
The bad boy Blake in this film met Jean and his son, which made his uninhibited and impetuous heart slowly find his home, find himself, and stay away from the so-called exciting life-alcohol, drugs, sex, money --Return to the warmth of family and friendship. But as Jean worries, is this just a moment of excitement or an appearance, or is it a permanent change?
I thought of myself, the young man who had a dream back then, who looked at the person he loved with the clear eyes of "holding the hand of the son and growing old together", the studious young man who often went to Peking University to listen to lectures, came to S After the city, has completely changed. This time is so inadvertent and random for the change of people, but the result is so profound.
In S city, everyone is completely free, You are free to be yourself. The space between people is so big, but the bond is so loose. There is a deep sense of defensiveness behind this complete independence. No matter what kind of relationship you have with the other person, it is difficult for you to enter your heart, and you are not willing. The fast pace and huge daily changes make it difficult to maintain that kind of long-term relationship, whether it's love or friendship. In this state, the bond of connection becomes a benefit.
One time during dinner, a Hong Kong colleague lost his voice in pain because his friend was sick; but I think the mainland colleagues present were calm and contemptuous. What everyone is accustomed to is to wear a mask of hypocrisy, self-protection, and the mentality of "do your own business, I don't depend on others".
Desire makes everyone restless.
Now, it's even hard for me to stop and watch a quality movie or book. I've been making myself more aggressive, more aggressive, to be a "stronger" and to face the ever-changing work and life.
Will something happen, like Jean's and Bad Blake, to pull me out of this state, let me get rid of the impetuousness again, and return to tranquility and peace?
I was wondering and wait. I don't know how life will present the future in front of my eyes.....
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