Life is a compromise and forgetting

Colt 2022-04-23 07:02:23

/ (2013)

The film is adapted from the play of the same name

Adapted to the screenplay by the original playwright Tracy Letts

family

just genetically related people

Beverly and Violet (Meryl Streep) are an old couple

they now

One is drinking and the other is taking drugs

to maintain the relationship

Beverly left the house one morning and never came back

Violet can only call their three daughters and her cousin and cousin-in-law to the house

The second daughter Ivy is here

After the eldest daughter Barbara (Julia Roberts Julia Roberts) and husband Bill (Ewan McGregor Ewan McGregor)

He also came from afar with his 14-year-old daughter

Not like a family just reunited

Barbara and her mother Violet immediately had a big fight

The conflict unfolds

Then came the bad news

Police find Beverly's body in lake, cause of death was suicide

Younger daughter Karen also "ceremoniously" arrived at the funeral with her fiancé

Conflict escalates after all members arrive

Violet, who was especially overdose at her husband's funeral dinner, spoke sharply at the dinner table

The daughters who have their own concerns are also sitting on pins and needles, and the relationship between the whole family is even more tense

Big daughter Barbara can't stand mother's meanness

The two quarreled loudly again

Barbara thinks through the pain and organizes her thoughts

Throw away all the mother's drugs

trying to save her mother

So Barbara must have understood and felt sorry for her mother at the moment when the two of them sat on the farm and supported each other.

Seemingly indestructible, the mother who has been detached from the essence of life all day

Really care about the family

The sudden death of her father Beverly made her unbearable

She can't seem to take care of the rest of her life

she broke down

But those who came to mourn

But not all of them can be called their own family

The three daughters talked about the old days in the courtyard

I don't have a deep connection with the other two

It's as if it's just a genetically unalterable connection.

They seem to be getting more and more distant

Unable to share the joys and sorrows of life

can't participate in and guide each other's lives

different life plans

It also made the three unhappy again

Seeing through and not telling life is a compromise

Violet, played by Aunt May, is a drug addict. She and her overly alcoholic husband struggle to keep the family's nominal marriage estranged in reality, but she can't choose to separate.

Let's call it a compromise on life

Because she really can't take care of herself alone

Violet's daughters also have many misunderstandings about themselves. Violet is aware of their problems, but she has never had the opportunity and position as a mother to gently guide them out of the current bad situation. Maybe this kind and thoughtful thought is only when she is not on drugs. The thought that flashed in my mind was the reality that she couldn't take care of them. It was also a kind of ignorance

Her eldest daughter Barbara's marriage has also come to an end, the man is no longer affectionate and considerate, the woman is no longer gentle and understanding find a new balance

She pretends her life is business as usual

Her second daughter, Ivy, has already reached the age of marriage, but she has always been single. There is always unnecessary gossip and criticism around her. It turns out that she has made up her mind with her "cousin", but she has been kept in the dark. She and her cousin are actually real siblings. The reality version of made her collapse again

She chooses to escape and no longer believes in love

Maybe you think this intricate blood relationship

It's a secret that has been hidden in this family but Violet knows that Violet's cousin knows that her cousin-in-law also knows that everyone just didn't make it public. Everyone lives with this secret, hoping to hide this betrayal in the dullness of life. The compromises and forgetting you make in pursuit of a happy life

Third daughter Karen confronts fiance's infidelity

No matter how angry she is, she can't tell anyone

She said she had done unspeakable things

Maybe in the future

But life just pushes you to that point

learn to forget

Amplify the happiness of the moment

In the end, mother and Barbara understood each other.

But they still can't live together

because

Some people can only care from a distance

Once close to life

Those contradictions and differences will only wear away your patience and love

life sometimes makes you

make some unavoidable choices


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  • Violet Weston: I have an Indian in my house!

  • Little Charles Aiken: [singing to Ivy] Well, I've never been a man of many words / And there's nothing I could say that you haven't heard / But I'll sing you love songs 'till the day I die / The way I'm feeling / I can't keep it inside // I'll sing a sweet serenade whenever you're feeling sad / And a lullaby each night before you go to bed / I'll sing to you for the rest of your life / The way I'm feeling / I can't keep it inside