Life is a mess, see how you deal with it

Jamison 2022-04-21 09:02:20

Life is a mess, see how you deal with it

A woman can never beat a woman younger than herself.

Sisters are not very close, but randomly selected cells bring blood ties to each other.

Parents' words and deeds are the best education.

Parents always prefer one child among many.

Child, please outlive me and don't die before me.

The interpersonal communication style of the family of origin is inherited.

Everyone makes mistakes and everyone has a mess to fix

These bloody words are so refreshing, because he said everyone's heart, although these words just flashed in your mind and I will no longer pursue and stop, but these words revealed and displayed. The truth of life is what you and I have thought and experienced—and it is.

Life is not so warm and sweet as we show and convey on the surface, the other side of it is dark, cruel, and terrifying. Just because we are very fragile and do not know how to face this unbearable reality, we often choose to cover up, avoid, or even deceive ourselves. But life will never change because of our attitude, nor will it let us go because of our weakness, treat us kindly, what we have to do is to face what we should face, what we should experience, and what we should bear bear.

The film Osage County uses the story of a family and everyone's life experience to help us and lead us to uncover the gorgeous veil of life on the surface, revealing the inside and essence.

Mothers should be the source of family spiritual strength, the spiritual support and life mentor of children. Unfortunately, in this family, the mother does not have this ability. She cannot even deal with the chaos of life independently, and chooses to take drugs to numb herself and escape difficulties. What has she been through? She is also a victim of life. She used to have a bitter and mean mother. Her mother didn't like him since she was a child, and liked her sister more. Therefore, children who did not experience mother's love inherited this trait like a fake when they grew up. With a sharp knife pierced in the heart, the communication between mother and daughter often ends in a big fight and a big fight. The way she treated her family like this for decades finally made her husband endure to the limit and chose to commit suicide, and made her daughters leave her without hesitation. Even her second daughter who had been taking care of her left her after her father died. , in the end she could only rely on the arms of the Indian maid she never saw. . . . . .

The eldest daughter is also being tortured by life. She is experiencing two of the three major contradictions that Chinese people generally encounter: mother-in-law, parent-child, and husband-wife relationship. How to treat a cheating husband, choose to forgive, or despise, hate, give up, or even separate or divorce, this is indeed a difficult problem thrown by life. She couldn't stand it and chose to separate, pushing her husband further. My daughter is 14 years old, but she is more mature and unrestrained than children of the same age. She couldn't discipline her daughter effectively, and she couldn't reverse the situation. She could only pray that her daughter wouldn't stab the big basket—life was too difficult for her. . . . . . .

The second daughter has always been filial and well-behaved. She lives nearby and takes care of her parents. The parents only know that her only regret is that she has not found a partner she likes. But who would have thought that she had uterine cancer and had her uterus removed, and she has since lost her qualifications as a mother. , she did not mention all this to her closest family members, because she knew that her suffering would only be exchanged for her mother's humiliation and ridicule. What a poor girl, her pain can only be endured silently, but fortunately she found true love, his cousin, but life made fun of her again, it turns out that his cousin is his half-brother, and they look forward to it. The good life just disappeared without a trace. Why? Why? If this daughter is to be treated so unfairly, how will she survive this disaster?

There is also a young daughter who does not have a strong sense of existence. She has been changing boyfriends and can't find someone worthy of her lifelong trust. Finally, a man appeared in her life. Although she has been married three times, she doesn't care. Thinking she would be the man's last wife, and intending to marry the following year. Who would have thought that she would be unkind again, her fiancé would molest her niece, the nature of a scumbag was exposed, and she was heartbroken, but what could it be, maybe this was not the first time she encountered such a thing, so she Try to convince herself that she believes in her fiancé again, otherwise what will happen, she has no way of knowing the answer to life.

Maybe the problem can be solved. In the movie, my uncle always conveys positive energy. He said to his son, don't think that you are a loser, you have always been our pride, it's just that other people didn't discover your advantages as early as I did, but your advantages always exist. He told his wife that people should respect each other and should not be mean to each other, especially on the day when my brother-in-law passed away. No matter what mistakes he made, he is a kind person, and I still love and respect him. he. . . . . . The wife was speechless, because the truth was that the son was not born to him and her husband, but an illegitimate child of him and her brother-in-law. What an irony that life beats a good guy once again.

Mr. Lu Xun said: "A true warrior dares to face the bleak life." Life presents us with problems every day. Many problems are waiting for us. Only by staying rational, calm, full of fighting spirit, and growing in wisdom can we solve problems and draw our own unique picture of life. Beauty or ugliness, the brush is in our hands.

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August: Osage County quotes

  • Violet Weston: I have an Indian in my house!

  • Little Charles Aiken: [singing to Ivy] Well, I've never been a man of many words / And there's nothing I could say that you haven't heard / But I'll sing you love songs 'till the day I die / The way I'm feeling / I can't keep it inside // I'll sing a sweet serenade whenever you're feeling sad / And a lullaby each night before you go to bed / I'll sing to you for the rest of your life / The way I'm feeling / I can't keep it inside