It seems that complex interpersonal relationships happened naturally again. Faced with the choice, the heroine was also confused and asked for help.
Sometimes I feel that what people think of as a Westerner's ego actually brings us closer to reality.
That scene in front of the psychiatrist where the
heroine finally gets honest with herself,
Am I still trying to figure out why the marriage failed? Am I still trying to figure out why the marriage failed?
Do I want to get back together? Do I want to get back together?
Do we have unfinished business? Is there any unfinished business between us?
Is this about revenge? Is it revenge?
Or am I… just lonely? Or is it just my caretaker thing? I mean, the kids are finally gone now, …and I just want to take care of him in some way?
Or am I feeling… lonely? Or after the child is gone, (they don't need me anymore), and when he comes back, to some extent, I just want to take care of him (and feel the value of my existence)?
For impartial dissemination, English dialogue is attached.
When faced with divorce, or should be said to encounter setbacks, people will always have many excuses to push the responsibility to foreign objects. "For the sake of the children, for the family, maybe I should..." But only a few people can sincerely face their feelings, although it is difficult, but sometimes it can be used as an important reference to help us make decisions, and sometimes even say In that instant, he already knew the answer.
Life is our own, we live for ourselves.
The psychiatrist's answer is also worth considering.
I'm already seeing you open up more than you have in some time. I'm thinking ,through this affair, you may learn to view the world in a different way This thing, you can learn to see the world from another perspective.
Again, the answer has nothing to do with external things, if it's good for you, do it.
The heroine discovers her alter ego and begins to try to accept the relationship.
Although in the end, the heroine decided to let go of her ex-husband, but I believe that her decision must be based on the premise of being more aware of her needs.
Another scene is that after the children all found out about the relationship, at the eldest daughter's home, the family expressed their sincerity and hugged each other tightly. In the United States, where the divorce rate is high, for children, the harm caused by divorce is also great. I don't know if they fully understand their mother's sincere confession, but they still accept and support her mother's decision. This is a family.
Emotional matters can never be clarified forever, nor can we fully understand the client's feelings, but we are family/friends, and it is enough to accept and support the client.
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