Watching this movie reminded me of my grandfather, and maybe only someone with Alzheimer's in the family can really understand this movie.
After watching the movie, I want to remember my grandfather and take care of his family
My grandfather spent most of his time in a wheelchair in my memory, but he also has a different state in a wheelchair.
In the beginning, he was still able to walk, and with the help of others, he could slowly go downstairs, sit outside with a cane and look at the scenery.
Later, he gradually became unable to stand, and would not go downstairs and go out again unless he went to the hospital.
But although he is in a wheelchair, he can understand what others say. Sometimes he will wave his hand to express his disapproval, and sometimes he will nod his head to express his appreciation. At that time, he can still hold the pen and write. Standing next to him, he can write. . My grandfather was a college student in the 1950s. He majored in agriculture. He knew two foreign languages, English and Russian, and even was proficient in some Japanese. It was normal to have such perseverance in learning at that time. Even from the perspective of intergenerational inheritance, I could live in the city It is also his credit that he went on to study and work in the village and went up several generations. He took his family out of the countryside.
Later, after he had a burn, he couldn't hold the pen, and he couldn't even write the simple word "Gong". At that time, he couldn't hold the pen, and he didn't know what to worry about in Nannan. Thinking about it now, he was the only college student in the village and became a professor at the Agricultural University. He used knowledge to change his fate. He used to be the same, but at that time he couldn't write a word, and those few murmurs might be an endless confession of fate. Bar
Later, his condition continued to deteriorate. He was unable to eat and had to use a nasogastric feeding tube, which is inserted directly into his stomach through his nose. He tried to pull out the tube with his hands several times, but his family had no choice but to tie his hands to a chair to prevent him from pulling it out. When the pipe is dropped, his whining sound can sometimes be heard in the room. There are clips of the old man being slapped in the movie (and probably imagined by himself), but I think there must be a real source of that physical pain, like the pain of a nasogastric tube. When I was in high school, the septum was bleeding, and the doctor used oil gauze to push it directly into the nasal cavity to stop the bleeding. It was already extremely painful.
He passed away at the end of 2016. I sometimes feel that I am ruthless, because I think that when he passed away, my grandmother, mother, aunt and uncle can at least relax a little bit, and I feel pain again. The grandfather I admire has left us. It has been 19 years since he fell ill in 1997 and died in 2016. In the past 19 years, I have also grown from a child to an adult. I watched him lose his vitality, lost his speech, lost his ability to walk, lost his writing, and was trapped in that wheelchair, unable to express himself anymore, enduring physical and spiritual grievances
My grandfather has 1 grandson and 2 grandsons. I am the eldest grandson. When I was 1 year old, he held me to play. When I was 1 year old, I was naturally friendly with him. When my mother said that my father was going to pick me up, I would She hugged her grandfather tightly and didn't let go.
In my memory, he was in a wheelchair. My brother and I took turns riding a small children's bicycle to play outside the house. When my brother was riding, he told me that he would drive a car in the future. I said that I would drive a big truck in the future, and then I heard He laughed.
This is the only time I can remember chatting with him, and by the time I can remember more, he no longer speaks
My grandfather and I are both party members, but at this moment, I hope that he can be well in heaven, and that there will be no more Alzheimer's in the world.
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