this is life

Helmer 2022-04-20 09:01:44

It's not a movie review, it's just a mess of related divergences. "Father Trapped in Time" has an exquisite script and superb acting skills. The plight and pain of patients and relatives, love and cold reality are all vividly displayed. Viewers can even get a puzzle-like viewing experience while analyzing the real timeline storyline. If you don't want to learn about Alzheimer's disease through a colder documentary, watching this movie is enough, I highly recommend it.

My fear of loss of control and disorder is basically equivalent to death. Dementia is the real death. If anyone cares about the body that is still breathing, it is just a body that holds other people's emotions and memories, a souvenir, a kind of he/she still alive. comfort. If no one cares, it is just a utensil, a work maintenance object, a burden, a candle that wants to be extinguished.

With the convenience brought by the development of modern civilization and the improvement of the educational level of the population, the voice of not getting married, infertile and living alone has become louder. However, marriage is still the best mode of anti-risk and economic cooperation for human beings, and heirs are still the most reliable person in charge of old-age care and sickness-not to mention all kinds of negative news, the reason why news is news is because it does not happen very often. Most marriages and parent-child relationships are normal, plain, in order.

A few days ago, a video about the living conditions of the elderly in a nursing home was transferred to the homepage several times. I didn't open it. I knew what I would see. Worried? I'm worried, but "the car must have a road to the front of the mountain, and the bridge to the bridge will be straight" - what if there is no road and no straight? "This is life", bear it, at least be happy, life is too short, just enjoy it in time.

For many things, there is no one-size-fits-all right choice. If you have self-knowledge + don’t worry about gains and losses, you can’t afford the consequences. If you have the ability to save hundreds of millions of property to enjoy high-end elderly care services, there is a high probability that it will be good regardless of whether you are married or not - as long as you are not demented.

In the final analysis, I am most afraid of losing my mind, losing my mind and getting out of control - it is not so depressing and unfounded. The starring Anthony Hopkins is 84 years old, and Mr. Eastwood is 92 years old, and they are still showing amazing His skills and wisdom are really the comforter for the minds of mortals like me, so we must approach those who shine.

Digression: I saw Jane in the 1996 Beckinsale version of "Emma" in this film. I only watched this version last year, and I thought she was so beautiful. Yesterday, I saw that she was already in her fifties and showed signs of aging. The contrast was slightly stronger (still beautiful).

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The Father quotes

  • [repeated line]

    Anthony: They don't even speak English.

  • Anthony: Paris. They don't even speak English there.