It belongs to the petty bourgeoisie with X.
There are many kinds of love for us to comprehend,
and in all kinds of love, in fact, we are all the Beginners.
Maybe it is because of recent studies,
so we can’t help but analyze it in psychology, and we can’t help it!
His father is gay, but he married his mother because of the secular world.
The mother is half Jewish, strong, independent and interesting, and even accepts the fact that her father is gay.
The male protagonist had many, many doubts when he was a child.
With such doubts in his arms, he watched his parents live peacefully for so many years,
and then looked at his father's new relationship after he came out frankly.
I thought his heart was very complicated. He has a lot of uncertainty about his feelings.
He didn't know how to face it,
so he bumped into the heroine and walked forward slowly.
After reading the story, I suddenly feel inexplicably that
this relationship of the male protagonist is a typical empathy.
According to my wishful thinking, the hero's affection for his father is a kind of "dependence".
He believes that fathers, especially elderly fathers, need to be taken care of.
He has a mission in his heart, like taking care of a child, he indulges his father to do what he loves.
He almost never really stopped.
As for his mother's feelings, the
male protagonist is dependent on and revered, and even subconsciously hopes that he will become a strong person like his mother.
So his profession is painting, which is also an expression of empathy.
I once heard a psychologist talk about love.
She said, why should we love?
Because we need to satisfy two needs of self and object, one is narcissism. One is attachment.
From this film,
for his father, the hero is satisfied with narcissism; for his mother, he is satisfied with attachment.
And when he met the heroine, the
heroine's initial performance - silence, was very similar to a certain segment of his mother when he was a child.
So, I think,
in fact, between him and the heroine is between him and his mother.
However, the role relationship of the former is that the hero plays the role of his mother, and the heroine is the hero himself.
Seeing that the heroine was so similar to him, he couldn't help but become his mother, a strong man in his heart, sharing the same body with himself who had many inner entanglements and uncertainties.
Well, it's just a little insight that was caught by me in time, and it
doesn't need to be too entangled.
What about empathy?
Who said, from a psychological point of view, love is a kind of empathy.
It is enough to meet and fall in love.
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