Actually this is not a love movie. The theme of this film is not so much love as learning, awkwardly, learning to love.
Everyone will have a process of learning love in his life, loving his lover, loving his family, loving others, and loving the world. This is not an easy homework. Maybe until death, there are still people who do not understand the true meaning of love, and there are still people who die with the desire for love. Yes, the desire for love, the desire for love, is born in everyone, but there are very few people who are born to know how to love.
I like the light golden sunlight in the movie, I like the light blue tones, I like McGregor said, this is a picture of stars, nature, cars, people kissing in 1955, like carefully sorting out memories. Like the hesitation in love, careful temptation, misunderstanding hurt and warmth and beauty. Love McGregor's gentle silence and Melanie's talking eyes. Love Hal's enthusiasm and Andy's brilliance. But my favorite is still here, be careful.
For a child who yearns for love and is afraid to believe in love (there is no age in front of love, so even at the age of 38, he is still a beginner in love, and even at the age of 75, he can love passionately), it is undoubtedly necessary to have a true love is tough. Because what he needs is too hard to find. When everyone longs for love, he is actually longing for what he/she lacks and needs. Especially when you have the ability to perceive your own loneliness, the fateful loneliness of human beings. So Melanie at the party didn't speak, and when he wrote "Why come to the party since you are so sad" in the small book, McGregor's eyes were raised, and he was fragile and stubbornly rejecting the door of this world opened.
Falling in love with someone is easy, maintaining a relationship and nurturing this love takes a long time. Getting along with each other, colliding, puzzled, hurting each other, comforting, loving, jealous, all kinds of entanglement. But just trust, trust that your love for each other will thrive, that you can rely on it and nurture it, and it will bloom. Is there anything better than loving these three words?
No matter how troublesome or bleak the world is, we will also work hard to learn to love. Love the one who wakes you up with love.
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