I kept thinking while watching the movie... I really don't understand why he didn't just collapse and let out a big cry? Maybe let go of all the emotions?
Later, I finally realized that there are many things that can be solved by crying, throwing away, sending away, dismantling, smashing and tearing the things in life. Because once you have something to worry about, everything is lost.
Because even if all preparations are made, no matter how long the buffer is, no matter how heavy the parting is, the moment of really leaving makes people feel too sudden, as if no amount of foreshadowing is enough.
But even with all your mental preparations, when you witness death you feel like your heart is suddenly torn apart.
The most painful parting way in the world should be, from the moment of separation, you have no way to enter his life again, but he is still everywhere in your life.
If it still rains after the rain, and if there is still sadness after the sadness, how can people calmly face the separation after the separation. How could it be possible to continue to look for you with a smile, a you who can never appear again?
Why so much pain, but can't cry?
But in the face of the loss of life, grief is a natural thing.
Everyone has the ability of self-healing. Loss is painful, and grief is the channel for loss of cultivation.
We know our needs far better when we lose than when we have them. This is also the cruelty of life: confidently thinking that I will like Ta again, and I will like many people again. But it was only after a long time that I learned that it was already my favorite person at that time. I always feel that the lover at this time is the same as the life at the moment, there are many unsatisfactory places, but only after everything has gotten worse, I realize that it was the best time of my life.
If we have to use such a painful loss to teach us one thing, that is, we must always cherish the life and people in front of us.
To those of us who have lost, are losing, and will lose in the future.
Don't be in a hurry to grow, because growth is made up of scars.
Don't be afraid to grow, because the scars will gradually heal, and only after Nirvana can you be reborn.
Because every moment is live now, there is no playback.
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