The film is about the deepest sorrow in the world, Charlie Gong lost his wife and children and fell into deep pain, while Allen discovered that Charlie, a former classmate who was hilarious and funny, had turned into a gray-haired autistic patient. Perhaps out of sympathy, Allen began to slowly approach Charlie, and they played games together, watched movies together, and went through a major life change together. At the same time, Allen also began to step out of his own barriers to communicate with his wife, and Charlie finally accepted the pain of losing his family and came out of decadence and abandonment. They both transcended their originally closed selves in this accidental friendship...
The memories of his family were endlessly haunting his mind, which was an unbearable pain. Charlie had no choice but to deny or escape those past memories through extreme methods. The same is true in reality. For traumatized patients, the greatest pain of course comes from the traumatic memory itself. The more painful the memory, the less you want to mention it. At this time, the easy choice for people is to escape.
Only emotion can rescue the soul that has fallen into the deep valley. In fact, this kind of connection between people is really wonderful. When sadness comes up like a tide, some people will find friends to pour it out, and some people choose to be plain and keep everything in their hearts. Yes, who has real friends, who can really tell people everything? Who can really understand the other person beside him? However, every time you are lonely, if there is a person by your side, you don't need words, just quietly accompany you, it is a kind of magical power. This is the so-called friendship. People cannot always live alone.
9·11, a topic that many people are reluctant to mention up to now, remember that it was in the sophomore year of high school, and it was the news that I got on the radio. In a blink of an eye, it has been 8 years, and these three numbers were slapped on the side in the movie. rendering. A dentist who lost his family and a group of happy people because of 9·11 will torture himself, his nerves, his body, the meaning of his existence, and everyone around him for the next five years. In just 120 minutes, the damage was shown so deeply and so deeply. From a multi-microscopic angle, like a magnifying glass, let us see the devastation after the collapse of Gemini...
Many times the biggest pressure comes from yourself. The pain of perfectionists is that they care too much about other people's evaluations, they need to be their best every moment, they don't allow others to understand their deepest thoughts, and they don't want to let others bear it together. However, who can be in perfect condition every day and treat everything and everyone without any emotion? When the expectations around you are so high, and your own requirements are even higher, it becomes an indescribable loneliness. I try my best to be perfect in everything, so there is no more praise and appreciation. Occasionally mistakes will be completely hurt, so no one will say that you are smart, but you can only endure being picked wrong all the time...
After reading it, I feel It will hurt a lot. Maybe, everyone has that "wounded city" in their hearts. Every seemingly happy family has an unspeakable past. We used our wounds to build a city to protect our hearts. The refusal, it shields the wind and snow and shields the sun, and finally, becomes a cold distance.
Everyone needs space, and every other person wants to walk into this space, if I don't know you, can I still love you? Therefore, every person who truly cherishes this relationship will make this concession and make him a friend who is close to him. He hides all the people and is doomed to lose all the people he should cherish who once cherished him.
If God is willing to give me a soul that can comfort me, let him not say anything, just sit quietly beside me and accompany me
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