Start from the heart to start over

Marquise 2022-04-21 09:02:15

Ask friends to help download movies on the school's website (in the same dormitory, I don't know why her download speed is my ten times). Signed up with her for the title of the movie, and she just listened to the name and said that all the movies you like to watch...? She didn't think of the right words, but I could also use... to get her meaning.

"Reign Over Me" is my type, I'm the kind of person who doesn't cry on weekdays, but needs to bring a tissue or a towel when it comes to movies and TV. Weird!

The movie is based on 911. I imagine that time flies so fast. On September 11, 2001, nearly 8 years have passed in the blink of an eye. 8 years? !

Eight years is long enough for those of us who have not been there to leave the impact or pain of the disaster beyond the sky. However, eight years seems not long enough for those who have been hurt in the disaster to come out of their inner shadows completely.

Chalie is one of them who is still in the cloudy day.
He rides Scooter every day, wears headphones, collects vinyl records, works as a drummer at the bar, plays video games at home, keeps remodeling the kitchen...no friends, no Language communication, completely living in a safe world created by oneself.

Allen seems to have a happy family and a rich income, but he is under great depression and feels that he has lost himself.

In fact, it is true that everyone is more or less mentally ill.
Compared to Chalie's tragic loss of his wife and children, Allen's problems seem trivial.
But in fact, when faced with psychological distress, everyone will suffer great pain and suffering.

The story makes them meet. They are former college roommates. When Allen discovers Chalie's autistic tendencies, he hopes that he can help him out of the haze. Riding a skateboard together, playing electric games together, watching an all-night movie together, and giving a concert for two people at home together...

I was very moved to see two people playing a concert at home. I don't know, but I can feel what it is like A catharsis and joy!

Gradually, Chalie trusted Allen as a friend, and slowly began to face her own problems.

Didn't like the ending part of the movie. Why were those people in court so aggressively provoking him? Why did his in-laws insist on putting him in a mental hospital?
His parents-in-law kept saying that they were his only relatives, but completely ignored his feelings. It was the homeowner who claimed to be a "witch" in court who handed Chalie the earphones for a moment of silence!

I also don't like the fact that Saffron Burrows is arranged to enter his world so quickly at the end, it's so unreasonable!

I was wondering if Chalie tried to kill himself after he first told Allen a story he never dared to face,
would it be a relief for him if the police actually shot him at that time? Is it good for him to force him to come out of his own safe world? ...

sometimes the life we ​​think is good for others is not necessarily what they want, or what is right for them! It's really what he wants to do from his heart.

It really takes a lot of mental strength and courage to come out of this kind of pain, and you can start anew from the heart.

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  • Skyla 2022-03-28 09:01:03

    It doesn't have to be about 911, it should be the case in our daily life. It's impractical to open your heart to everyone, but it's always easier for your loved ones. Closing yourself will only make yourself a container of pain. Second, BS cowards who sacrifice innocent civilians for their own political ends.

Reign Over Me quotes

  • Charlie Fineman: I don't need to talk about her or look at pictures. 'Cause the truth is, a lot of times, I see her, on the street. I walk down the street, I see her in someone else's face. Clearer than any of the pictures you carry with you. I get that you're in pain, but you've got each other. You got each other! And I'm the one who's gotta see her and the girls all the time. Everywhere I go! I even see the dog. That's how fucked up I still am! I look at a German shepherd, I see our goddamn poodle.

    [kisses Ginger and walks away]

  • Charlie Fineman: I have no one. At least you two have each other.

    [Charlie kisses Ginger Timplemen, his mother-in-law, on her cheek and walks away]