in the name of love

Margot 2022-04-24 07:01:10

How to choose, whether to choose to let him end the pain early, or to stick to it? Many families have experienced this kind of confusion. Relatives who are tortured by illness, watching them lose weight, look pained but helpless, not only bring pain to the family, but also make the patient suffer. There are many diseases that cannot be cured and can only be dragged on for life. It's all torture like this, that's why euthanasia occurs. It's better to get rid of it early than to let him suffer. But it really takes a lot of perseverance to make such a determination. My grandfather also had cancer back then, and the whole family Following Jiao Xin, every time I saw that he was too thin, I felt as sad as a knife, but we stayed with him until the end. The grandfather in the movie always consoled grandma at the beginning, you are not my burden, do your best Taking care of her, but in the end I think he can't stand it anymore. Seeing his beloved wife was delirious and moaning in pain, his final choice not only gave his wife a relief, but also gave himself a relief, not every time. Individuals have such courage and determination, and in the end he also chooses to die with his wife, and everyone has the right to choose how to live.
But the grandmother in the film has lost the right to choose. Many patients committed suicide when they were tortured by illness, but at the last moment, very few chose to die. At the beginning, they were discouraged and lazy, and many people would choose to be active. She cooperated with the treatment because she didn't want to leave, and the grandma in the film didn't actually show that she wanted to give up at the end, but I think it was because she was in too much pain, so grandpa made a choice for her. , but is this really fair? I know that whether I choose to euthanize her or to suffer until the end is based on love, because loving that person will make people choose to stay with her until the end or decide to end the pain cruelly, everyone has the right to choose, maybe you I feel that you understand her and what she wants, but you are not her after all. Sometimes, your choice really cannot replace her. The daughter in the film is another idea, for the mother in the hospital bed. And sad, but what should I do? How to do? Just powerless.
I can understand what he did, but I can't accept it. Two old people have the same taste in music. They share a book. They still have common topics until they are old. Can I ask you if you read that book? How do you feel? Maybe it is because of this that grandpa made such a choice, a bit selfish, in the name of love, I killed you, and then killed myself, we left together, I made this choice for you, because I feel that I Get to know you because you are the person I love the most.

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  • Camryn 2022-03-31 09:01:03

    If nothing else, Haneke's "Love" is the best foreign language Oscar. Moisturizing each other, disappearing with each other, and the sound of water flowing away with nostalgia. One nightmare is accompanied by someone; two hallucinations, the lover is there. A pigeon appeared twice, the first time it was pushed out of the window, the second time it was closed, and then let go. The poetry of freedom, or the irreversible transgression of death? The death of the old lady reminds me of "The Wild Rose of Paris", the pigeon is also much like the cat in it. Five stars.

  • Clarissa 2021-12-18 08:01:03

    Painful viewing. Attached to the truth: classmates grandparents, grandma's dementia, grandpa guards, and feeds porridge three meals a day. Back then, he always went to his house to play chess, and was stared at by the old grandmother up and down. It was like two living eyeballs attached to an inanimate body. After 30 to 50 years of care, it may be due to unfilial piety or other reasons. Later, grandpa strangled grandma, hanged himself, and both disappeared. Back then, I just felt scared after listening

Amour quotes

  • Anne: What would you say if no one came to your funeral?

    Georges: Nothing, presumably.

  • Georges: [telling a childhood memory] ... some banal romance or other about a nobleman and a lower middle-class girl who couldn't have each other and who then, out of sheer magnanimity, decide to renounce their love - in fact, I don't quite remember it any more. In any case, afterwards I was thoroughly distraught, and it took me a bit of time to calm down. In the courtyard of the house where grandma lived, there was a young guy at the window who asked me where I'd been. He was a couple of years older than me, a braggart who really impressed me. "To the movies," I said, because I was proud that my grandma had given me the money to go all alone to the cinema. "What did you see?" I started to tell him the story of the movie, and as I did, all the emotion came back. I didn't want to cry in front of the boy, but it was impossible; there I was, crying out loud in the courtyard, and I told him the whole drama to the bitter end.

    Anne: So? How did he react?

    Georges: No idea. He probably found it amusing. I don't remember. I don't remember the film either. But I remember the feeling. That I was ashamed of crying, but that telling him the story made all my feelings and tears come back, almost more powerfully than when I was actually watching the film, and that I just couldn't stop.