I think when I watched it for the first time, I already understood Grandpa's love for anna. The second time, I understood my grandfather's love for my grandmother.
Anna has always lived elegantly and dignifiedly, playing the violin, playing the piano, and going to concerts with her grandfather...and being half paralyzed, it perfectly broke Anna's bottom line of defense. When I first got home in a wheelchair, I had to change to the sofa at home; my proud student came to visit, but did not want to talk about the reason for my paralysis, but only wanted to listen to a piece of music; my daughter and son-in-law were about to come, she It is also very straightforward to tell the grandfather that he does not want to see his son-in-law, and euphemistically says that he does not want to hear his son-in-law's British humor.
But gradually, with the deterioration of her condition, Anna could no longer live with dignity, but the grandfather understood her. When the daughter formally talked about how to deal with her mother's illness, the old man was very angry and tired and told his daughter, should he go to a nursing home? He knows, he understands, that her anna is definitely not willing to go to those places, to be taken care of by nurses as a patient, or to be arbitrarily manipulated by doctors in order to delay the deterioration of her condition. When the daughter visited her mother for the second time, the grandfather chose to lock the door. He knew that Anna was unwilling, and did not want his daughter to see her so sick and helpless. But in the end, the old grandpa still opened the door. When he saw that his daughter was also in pain and tears, he realized with regret that her daughter was also his and Anna's close lover.
In the beginning, when the grandfather could take care of Anna by himself, he did his best to take care of it by himself. Although its neighbors have expressed it more than once, they are very happy that Anna can go home, and admire the grandpa for taking care of Anna in such a way. It must be hard for them to understand why the old grandpa insisted on taking care of her by himself. At that time, Anna was also extremely struggling. The grandfather went to attend a friend's funeral. After returning to help Anna, who was slumped on the ground, he was silent for a long time in front of the window. Because he realized that when he left, Anna tried to commit suicide by jumping out of the window.
The old grandpa was very angry and fired the young nurse, and hoped that someone would treat her like a nurse treats a patient in the future. Because the behavior of the caregiver destroyed the last bit of dignity in Anna's heart, she brushed Anna's hair roughly and asked Anna to look in the mirror. After anna experienced all these changes after the deterioration of her condition, she started a hunger strike. Because of Anna's hunger strike, the grandfather beat her angrily. He loves her, he hopes Anna can live hard, he tells Anna all kinds of true and false stories, teaches Anna how to speak and sing, and he hopes that Anna is the one who is sick and thinks that he is the one who is sick, but these seem to have no effect. He understood, he wanted to keep Anna's last dignity, and he suffocated her. He chose the most beautiful dress for Anna, covered her whole body with freshly picked flowers, turned the room into a beautiful cemetery, and left Anna with the dignity of leaving. Finally, he woke to hear Anna washing dishes in the kitchen, as if the pain never came. He followed her. close the door. Leave.
In the end, only the empty room with the curtains swaying in the wind remained.
I heard from my dad that since my grandmother got sick and passed away, my grandfather has been addicted to playing cards. You can't cook food, you can't wash your clothes, and you're like a homeless person without someone to take care of you. I didn't even think about finding another wife. Is there a possibility that maybe he wasn't obsessed with the poker table, maybe he just hoped that his messy life would be seen by my grandma and suddenly come home to take care of him?
Grandpa left this year. When I left, I was thousands of kilometers away, so I didn't have the chance to see him off. Dad said that all the funeral arrangements were made before grandpa left, and he could go back to his hometown to accompany grandma.
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