kill you for love

Gladys 2022-04-22 07:01:31

Really appreciate a movie or a book, it is a matter of energy consumption. After watching the movie "Love", the feeling is especially obvious. This is the rare good movie you've seen recently, but it shocks you in the usual babble.

The old couple depended on each other for life. Later, the wife was half paralyzed and had difficulty moving, and was taken care of by his wife. Unfortunately, the good times didn't last long. After two strokes, my wife was sick in bed and began to speak slurred words. She always shouted "Pain, Pain, Pain..." or "Mom, Mom, Mom..." and became incontinent. , Endured the rude care of the nurse but was powerless to resist. The strong wife lived so dignified in the end. She was uncomfortable, and her wife was also in pain. When she shouted "Pain, Pain, Pain..." again, the wife used a pillow to let her suffocated to death.

The ending is unexpected, but this ending is also reasonable. This is the best ending. This is not a murder, this is a release because of love.

When the heroine first became paralyzed, she discussed with the hero whether she should continue to live like this? The male protagonist at the time rejected her proposal, saying that he would take care of her. When she was seriously ill again and again, and living was a disaster, he also had the idea of ​​letting her die. So when the heroine refused to drink water and wanted to die of thirst, he beat her. When his daughter wanted to have a good talk with him about her mother's condition, he asked back why it was a good talk! In fact, at this moment, they all understand what it means to have a good talk, which is to let her choose death.

The voice of the female lead moaning at the end of her life reminds me of my grandma. At that time, my grandmother was seriously ill, my father was not there, and only my mother was by my side. Every night when I went to bed, I could hear my grandmother's moaning sound. That kind of painful, but suppressed moaning sound was the last sound my grandmother left me. . Grandma died not long after that. It was the first and only time I saw someone in their last moments. Grandma ended her life not so painfully.

The heroine in the story is suffering from all kinds of discomfort, especially for a perfectionist with strong self-esteem, this kind of pain is even more torture. Unfortunately, she can only rely on her own wife, and her daughter cannot be counted on, because she is also in dire straits, and her husband cheats again and again. Faced with this situation, in fact, death, active death, is a kind of relief.

I can't accept that life is so uncomfortable at the end, passive and old, like a deflated ball that can be pinched by anyone. When you cannot end your life gracefully, then take the initiative to give your life a chance to end it. If the female protagonist can choose euthanasia, the male protagonist does not need to make that choice in the end.

However, even if the male protagonist made such a choice, he still understands the love of the male protagonist for the female protagonist. What is love, I don't know. At least love is really putting itself in the other's shoes. So the heroine doesn't go to the hospital if she doesn't like it. If the heroine wants to end her life, the hero will suffocate her to death. Love is to give her freedom.

In the process of watching a movie, heartbreak and warmth are intertwined. The old age of the elderly makes me uneasy, and my parents are getting older. In the process of watching the movie, I have only one thought. If I were the daughter of the heroine in the movie, I would put down everything to accompany my mother, even if it could not alleviate her physical pain, it could at least alleviate her psychological loss. Let the cheating husband go to hell.

The heart-warming thing in the movie is the love of the wife for the heroine. Attentive care and talkative communication. This is the best ending I can think of in my life. An old companion, an old companion, only when you are old can you know your partner, how important a harmonious partner is.

One of the most surprising scenes in the movie is when the wife refuses to drink water, and the husband slaps her in anger. We are always prone to violence against the powerless, with children, and with the elderly. More hope, less violence, more patience and tolerance. Do not use violence against a person in the name of love, just as do not use force against a citizen in the name of legal justice.

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Amour quotes

  • Anne: What would you say if no one came to your funeral?

    Georges: Nothing, presumably.

  • Georges: [telling a childhood memory] ... some banal romance or other about a nobleman and a lower middle-class girl who couldn't have each other and who then, out of sheer magnanimity, decide to renounce their love - in fact, I don't quite remember it any more. In any case, afterwards I was thoroughly distraught, and it took me a bit of time to calm down. In the courtyard of the house where grandma lived, there was a young guy at the window who asked me where I'd been. He was a couple of years older than me, a braggart who really impressed me. "To the movies," I said, because I was proud that my grandma had given me the money to go all alone to the cinema. "What did you see?" I started to tell him the story of the movie, and as I did, all the emotion came back. I didn't want to cry in front of the boy, but it was impossible; there I was, crying out loud in the courtyard, and I told him the whole drama to the bitter end.

    Anne: So? How did he react?

    Georges: No idea. He probably found it amusing. I don't remember. I don't remember the film either. But I remember the feeling. That I was ashamed of crying, but that telling him the story made all my feelings and tears come back, almost more powerfully than when I was actually watching the film, and that I just couldn't stop.

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