Is it written for boys like me?

Filiberto 2022-04-23 07:02:26

A boy like Kevin, if I fall in love, how will it end?
Falling in love with a character in a book created by yourself, and being able to change everything about your sweetheart at will, is probably what many people dream of. The lingering in love, the feeling of wanting to be together all the time, crazy, going to the dance hall to dance frantically, to take a few proud group photos, no matter what, as long as the lover is around, everything is so perfect and sweet.
However, the trivialities of life that follow are the long-term, and soon, the problems will be exposed. And owning a typewriter to change a lover seems to be a magic weapon. You don't have to pay for all your shortcomings, as long as the other party changes. A strong desire to control, "always don't say your own rules, wait until the other party violates the rules, and then disappoint the other party", I think I made the same mistake as Kevin. The arrogant restlessness finally subsided as Ruby whirled around in the dance, shouting "You are genius".
If he has always been reluctant to face his own problems and put the blame on others, then Kevin will always be the Kevin holding the bear, with few friends and no love.
Kevin in the movie exposes all the problems, but doesn't solve them, and even shifts the blame to others. He is obviously not very powerful, and he clearly sees that there are many, many people who are more powerful than himself, but he is complacent after getting a little achievement. Likes to hear other people's praise, whether it is genuine praise or false flattery, immersed in his own small circle. If it still doesn't change, then I, who have not yet been in love, when love comes, after embracing the romance of love, I am afraid that what I will gain is only the back of my girlfriend leaving. Kevin is happy. After he chooses to let go, he can start anew with his lover. And reality is often not comedy.

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  • Edwina 2022-03-28 09:01:04

    I don't think it's a movie about love, it's a movie for a novelist. Anyone who has written novels must feel this way. You try to control what the people in your writing do, and in the end you find that you have a feeling of powerlessness in your grasp of the plot. Instead, you want to set her free and try to let "her" tell you what to do next What will happen.

  • Cortez 2022-03-27 09:01:09

    Without this dark and twisted ending, this movie probably wouldn't be remembered by me. it's beautiful to set her free.

Ruby Sparks quotes

  • Calvin Weir-Fields: She's a person.

    Harry: You haven't written a person, okay? You've written a girl.

  • Ruby Sparks: Were you disappointed when you got to know me?

    Calvin Weir-Fields: How can you ask that?

    Ruby Sparks: I'm such a mess.

    Calvin Weir-Fields: I love your mess.