Not all of us are creators, but we were all paranoid

Jerrod 2022-04-23 07:02:26

American movies have always been my favorite, and I can feel the tolerance and "freedom" of American culture when I watch them. Before watching this movie, I got the label of being a little fresh from others. I watched it as a pastime after lunch, why did it feel a little heavy.
The male protagonist created a perfect lover, he thought she was perfect, even her short legs, he couldn't love her, but his desire to control became very strong after the relationship deepened. He wanted to control her, Control her actions, control her thoughts. After he realized that she might leave him, he took out the keys again, changed his mind not to change her anymore, and he resumed his control. Let her be inseparable from yourself, let her feel happy. Until finally, he finally realized that love is to let her free and let her be who she is, not what he created. Some people think that this film does not dig deep enough into the character flaws of the hero, but I actually think it's enough. The helpless tone of the hero's mother, the rebuke from his ex-girlfriend, and the quarrel with the heroine all make this character full. I don't think the director's point is to make the male lead so bad. He's just a bit lonely, stubborn, and called a "genius" writer. We were all paranoid in love like him. We wanted to control the other half and reshape the other half, but we just used various methods. In the end, we found that everything was in vain. We are not creators, no one is created by us and is 100% compatible with us. I like the ending very much, the hero met the girl of his dreams, she admired him, and he changed, happy ending, very good. Although the story is a bit old-fashioned, I think the angle is quite new.

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Ruby Sparks quotes

  • Harry: Quirky, messy women whose problems only make them endearing are not real.

  • Calvin Weir-Fields: She's a person.

    Harry: You haven't written a person, okay? You've written a girl.