About Parenting Again

Maude 2022-04-22 07:01:31

At the age of 9, he experienced an emotional explosion of self-exploration. What am I doing at 9 years old? ?

All good parents, good mothers, good grandparents, good grandma.

Why are children with strong hands-on ability and diverse thinking afraid of talking to strangers and afraid of urban environments? What is the missing link in education for a father who knows how to guide so well that makes his children have such fears? Is there really some higher-order autism in some genes?

I talked to my mother once that "there is no in-depth dialogue between us, and the debate only exists in food, clothing, housing and transportation." The reason for refusing to communicate with my mother is because I feel that my mother will not understand me in my daily life, and the values ​​expressed by my mother's words are contrary to my own. Suffering to the point of self-abuse, helpless, she can only tell the secret to the dumb stranger. It's like writing a diary and keeping a film review, it doesn't matter if anyone reads it or not, as long as it becomes text, it becomes a sustenance. I didn't know this mother was so sensible. It is not to let it go, but to think in a different position, and use your actions to win the respect of your children.

Many movies are teaching me how to be a mature elder in the future: to listen, understand and give.

PS. Contradictory grammar

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Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close quotes

  • Linda Schell: I went into your room and I tried to think like you did. I wanted to understand.

    Oskar Schell: You were snooping on me?

    Linda Schell: I was searching for you.

  • Oskar Schell: I wish it were you.

    [pause]

    Oskar Schell: I wish it were you in the building instead of him.

    Linda Schell: [very softly] So do I.

    Oskar Schell: [pause] I didn't really mean that.

    Linda Schell: [sadly, in a whisper] Yes you did.