A person can never lose more than he has gained. How can he mature in advance and see the importance of gains and losses at that moment? Choose what everyone does, and wait for it in silence in the days to come; this is probably an unsolvable problem in life.
"If the sun is going to explode, you will have a full eight minutes before you find out. That is the time it takes for the light to reach the earth from the sun. For eight minutes, the world will still be bright and warm. It has been since my father died. It's been a year, and I can feel the eight minutes he gave me getting colder."
Don't dare to walk into that room, don't dare to take public transportation, don't dare to walk across small bridges. . . . . There are too many things that we dare not, and it is all because we have actually obtained it. Isn’t that the case with each of us? If you really get it, isn't the loss equally real and heavy? This tore a son's heart, but the feeling of the taste of life is still alive, what can be compared to the distance gained and lost?
It is easy to take death as the ultimate way of liberation. As the Christian pastor said, life is a river that eventually flows into the same river. Above the waterfall at the end of the big river, and looming behind the mist, is heaven. It is also easy to preach the set in the temple: the cycle of cause and effect, the reincarnation of reincarnation. It's really easy, but what's easy is just words. Delightful heart, human affection, and love for life rooted in the heart, compared with the cruelty and ruthlessness of the world, and the affectionate nostalgia for the world, will you only think about your own commitment to life.
The little boy embarked on a journey of search, but the final answer is not important, what is important is the kindness of the people in the world along the way. Losing also means gaining. Keep the kindness and warmth of others in your own memory, this should be the world of love with lovers.
In the Buddhist scriptures, there is a story. When the Buddha was alive, there was a woman named Gautami. Her young child died of illness. She was very sad and asked everywhere if there was any medicine to bring her child back to life. Later, she approached the Buddha for help. The Buddha said, I can make this medicine for you, but it requires special ingredients. You go to the city and find a family where no one has ever died, and ask them for some mustard seeds and bring them back to me. So Gotami happily went from house to house in the city, only to find that people had died in all of them. She finally realizes that she is not alone in suffering the loss of a loved one. She came to the Buddha again, and the Buddha said compassionately: You think you are the only one suffering, but the truth is that everything is impermanent.
Only when a tear is integrated into the rivers, lakes and seas, can you understand the indifferent mood.
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