Post-traumatic growth path

Maryam 2022-04-19 09:02:01

The story takes place after the "911" incident, the father of the male protagonist died in this accident. With his father gone, he was plunged into extreme pain and sadness. Traumatized people, they will constantly recall the sounds, scenes and pictures at that time, and they may be afraid, sad, and self-blame. When Oscar was looking for black, he mentioned on the way out that after the fight, I was afraid of many things, such as elevators, planes, tall buildings, noise, screaming, crying, unclaimed bags, children without parents, Loud things, smoking things, shiny and winged things, etc. As he reached the terrifying bridge, he rang the bell and called Fort Green to run over. When he found the tenant of his grandma's house, he told him about his father and the story of looking for black, and the tenant was willing to go with Oscar after listening. On the way, because of the long distance, the tenant said that he would take the subway, because he could not walk very far and the subway was faster. Oscar is terrified of the subway (he thinks all public transportation is a target and dangerous), so the tenant leaves him a note [Sometimes, we have to face our fears]. At the same time, in the subway, the tenant told Oscar not to think about anything. Oscar said it was like an oxymoron, so they started playing. When they were walking back, they encountered another swaying wooden bridge. Oscar said that he did not dare to cross it. The tenant left a note on the nail on the bridge at a distance [if you cross the bridge , I'll tell you my story] The tenant in the story, like Oscar's protector, takes him little by little to break through his fears and support what he wants to do, warm and unrestricted. His appearance opened Oscar's heart again and found the feeling of open-hearted exchange and adventure with his father. Although he was disappointed with the ownership of the key in the end, it was not the same as what he thought at first, but in the process, he gained the love of most people, reconnected with his mother, and he slowly discovered that even without a father, it is not impossible , He slowly regained the rhythm of life, his sky cleared up again, and Oscar's psychology underwent post-traumatic growth through this process. He became stronger and braver.

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Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close quotes

  • Oskar Schell: Can I tell you something I've never told anyone else before?

    Hector Black: HELL NO!

  • Linda Schell: Hey! Yeah I've been trying to reach you! I'm on my way home! I'm coming home! Thomas can you hear me?

    Thomas Schell: Yes! I can hear you!

    Linda Schell: This is unbelievable! Are you watching this?

    Thomas Schell: Listen to me! Other people want to use the phone so I don't have to much time!

    Linda Schell: Listen to me I'm going to be home in about 20 minutes!

    Thomas Schell: No! You listen to me! I'm in the World Trade Center!

    Linda Schell: What do you mean you're in the World Trade Center?

    Thomas Schell: I had a meeting! But it's going to be okay! They are telling us to stay where we are. We broke a window to let in some air.

    Linda Schell: Where are you?

    Thomas Schell: I'm on the 105th floor! They are about 50 of us up here.

    Linda Schell: You listen to me, you come home right now!

    Thomas Schell: It's going to be fine, you're going to be fine. Where is Oscar?

    Linda Schell: Oscar is on his way home, but you listen to me! You come home right now!

    Thomas Schell: I will call and I will tell him!

    Linda Schell: Tell him what?

    Thomas Schell: I will tell him what's happening. We were told to wait where we are! Firemen are on their way, and that we are all fine!

    Linda Schell: Thomas?

    Thomas Schell: That's what we are going to do!

    Linda Schell: Thomas?

    Thomas Schell: Okay?

    Linda Schell: No it's not okay! Thomas you need to listen to me!

    Thomas Schell: Yeah!

    Linda Schell: You need to find a stairwell! Do you hear me? Find the stairs and you come home!

    Thomas Schell: Honey! I got to go! Other people need to use the phone! I'm gonna be fine, you're gonna be fine! You listen to me! You made my life better and I want you to know that absolutely love you. I'm going to call you back in a few minutes.

    Linda Schell: No! Stop saying that! Just find the stairs! Don't stop talking to me! Just stay talking to me! Please just stay talking to me!

    [Phone call ends]