Post-traumatic growth path

Maryam 2022-04-19 09:02:01

The story takes place after the "911" incident, the father of the male protagonist died in this accident. With his father gone, he was plunged into extreme pain and sadness. Traumatized people, they will constantly recall the sounds, scenes and pictures at that time, and they may be afraid, sad, and self-blame. When Oscar was looking for black, he mentioned on the way out that after the fight, I was afraid of many things, such as elevators, planes, tall buildings, noise, screaming, crying, unclaimed bags, children without parents, Loud things, smoking things, shiny and winged things, etc. As he reached the terrifying bridge, he rang the bell and called Fort Green to run over. When he found the tenant of his grandma's house, he told him about his father and the story of looking for black, and the tenant was willing to go with Oscar after listening. On the way, because of the long distance, the tenant said that he would take the subway, because he could not walk very far and the subway was faster. Oscar is terrified of the subway (he thinks all public transportation is a target and dangerous), so the tenant leaves him a note [Sometimes, we have to face our fears]. At the same time, in the subway, the tenant told Oscar not to think about anything. Oscar said it was like an oxymoron, so they started playing. When they were walking back, they encountered another swaying wooden bridge. Oscar said that he did not dare to cross it. The tenant left a note on the nail on the bridge at a distance [if you cross the bridge , I'll tell you my story] The tenant in the story, like Oscar's protector, takes him little by little to break through his fears and support what he wants to do, warm and unrestricted. His appearance opened Oscar's heart again and found the feeling of open-hearted exchange and adventure with his father. Although he was disappointed with the ownership of the key in the end, it was not the same as what he thought at first, but in the process, he gained the love of most people, reconnected with his mother, and he slowly discovered that even without a father, it is not impossible , He slowly regained the rhythm of life, his sky cleared up again, and Oscar's psychology underwent post-traumatic growth through this process. He became stronger and braver.

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Extended Reading
  • Daphney 2022-03-30 09:01:04

    Always we are saving ourselves.

  • Calista 2022-04-24 07:01:07

    A few moments are especially beautiful and very moving, and many more are especially loud and very deliberate. Before 9/11 is a catastrophe that shakes human nature, any emotional cracking seems too much. Thomas Horn is precocious, not like a child, more like Woody Allen without his sense of humor. Even as a die-hard director of Dedley, I have to say: very average!

Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close quotes

  • Linda Schell: I went into your room and I tried to think like you did. I wanted to understand.

    Oskar Schell: You were snooping on me?

    Linda Schell: I was searching for you.

  • Oskar Schell: I wish it were you.

    [pause]

    Oskar Schell: I wish it were you in the building instead of him.

    Linda Schell: [very softly] So do I.

    Oskar Schell: [pause] I didn't really mean that.

    Linda Schell: [sadly, in a whisper] Yes you did.