A wife is like a cornerstone, a lover is like a fragrance

Al 2022-04-19 09:02:07

No one can articulate his wives and lovers as eloquently as the world psychologist Jung: For me, the wife is the cornerstone of marriage, and the lover is the fragrance in the air.

No man can speak so plainly of his inescapable inner thoughts, if this life can be a joy. Many men's happiness is built on the success of their careers, on the satisfaction of money, and on the basis of both their wives and lovers. Maybe, many men can't fulfill the inner dream that their wives and lovers have, just like they can't satisfy their own career or money satisfaction, not everyone has such luck to earn the dream amount of money, just like not everyone It is possible for a person to have both a cornerstone and a fragrance.

If the wife is really the cornerstone and the lover is really like a fragrance, this explains why many men have seemingly happy marriages and still fantasize or practice cheating. From a woman's point of view, if you can have the possibility of a cornerstone and a fragrance at the same time, can you not be tempted? At the very least, many women and fashionable women are inseparable from fragrances. Even if they don’t use them often, they will put two bottles of perfume on their dressers, and sway them when needed to make themselves smell more fragrant and moving. Lose yourself in your favorite fragrance. Perhaps a certain fragrance even triggers a memory of a certain time and space. The fragments of the past and the past are layered in the fragrance, flashing the past youth, the past fascination, and the past love. For women, fragrance represents not only a pleasant smell, but a kind of cherishing of oneself, infatuation with oneself, or the aftertaste and infatuation of a certain man at a certain moment.

For men, having a cornerstone is as important as having a legitimate career, and it is a necessity to maintain the integrity of their life map. Of course, many men have no interest in having a legitimate career or cornerstone, all they need is fragrance, different fragrances at different times. For those married men who already have a cornerstone, it is a luxury to have fragrance, a luxury similar to women's pursuit of famous brands, and it is this luxury that makes them feel the importance and value of life.

I know a married man who has always dreamed of fragrance in his heart while possessing the cornerstone and all the beauty that the cornerstone brings. However, it is not that he has no money, but that he has no courage to pursue this luxury, only in the depths of his heart He secretly smelled the imaginary fragrance emanating from a certain corner, imagining when he could secretly sway this fragrance, even for a moment, for a while. In the end, he finally found a perfume bottle to sway the medium fragrance, but this perfume bottle is already famous and owned by a friend of his. However, this married man doesn't care, what he needs is not a cornerstone, but a fragrance, so he doesn't care about having this fragrance with another man, another male friend at the same time.

It may be difficult for a woman to imagine that two men can have the same perfume bottle very civilly, and each of them will regularly sway the fragrance of this bottle. However, this kind of thing exists, because for these two men, their life is very stable, they have the cornerstone, and they can also secretly sway their fragrance, and when necessary, two people can be at the same time for each other's cheating. Cover it up and be a witness to each other being a good gentleman, a good father.

Perhaps, many cornerstones have never dreamed that they are just a part of a man's life, and whether this man is happy depends on the existence of another fragrance. Maybe, when Keystone realizes their man is cheating, they just lie to themselves that he still loves me.

In fact, what men love is a mixture of reality and dreams. They cannot do without the tenacity and ability of the cornerstone, and they cannot but sway a fragrance at any time to indulge themselves in the dream of a successful man they weave. Once they take away the title of successful man, they will be at a loss and lose the direction of their entire life.

Just like Jung, he lived to be 96 years old, and his cornerstone and fragrance died before him, maybe, this explains why a man can live long, but his cornerstone and fragrance live Short, because the former is happy and the latter is unhappy, at least when they are aware of each other's existence.

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  • Alexa 2022-04-21 09:02:21

    When she saw that chin, she went out to play. This woman has no face, no figure and no acting skills. Why is she still messing around, she can't let it go! Is there no one to stop her on the set? There is reason to suspect that Cronenberg is a senior black

  • Josiane 2022-04-23 07:02:25

    The heroine pushes too hard.

A Dangerous Method quotes

  • [first lines]

    Carl Jung: [to his new patient] Good morning... I'm Dr. Jung. I admitted you yesterday.

    Sabina Spielrein: I'm not... I'm not mad, you know.

    Carl Jung: Let me explain what I have in mind. I propose that we meet here, most days, to talk for an hour or two.

    Sabina Spielrein: Talk?

    Carl Jung: Yes. Just talk. See if we can identify what's troubling you. So as to distract you as little as possible, I'm going to sit there, behind you. I'm going to ask you to try not to turn around and look at me under any circumstances. Now...

    [walks behind her as she flinches]

    Carl Jung: Have you any idea what may have brought on these attacks you suffer from?

    Sabina Spielrein: [stammering] Hu... humiliation. Any kind of... humiliation.

  • Carl Jung: I can only tell you that she's rather disorganized, emotionally generous, and exceptionally idealistic.

    Sigmund Freud: Well, perhaps it's a Russian thing.