Inside and outside the siege

Kiera 2022-04-20 09:01:47

Watched this movie with my boyfriend and wanted to score 7.5 or above.

The whole movie is very interesting, as if nothing happened and as if nothing happened. About love and education, staged in front of the curtain. The scene of the movie changes very little, and there are several large sections that basically take place in the courtyard. The protagonist kept talking and talking, and the waves were stirred up between the words.

After watching the movie, I have more questions about "how to be a good parent". As a parent, how do you set a good example so that your child will not go astray? But there are many examples in life where parents go astray, but their children are on the right path. Of course, if the child is assertive enough, he can also "educate" himself well. The question is, how can we nurture our children's opinions?

In the movie, "payment" is also profoundly mentioned. How to pay for marriage? What is giving? How much is enough to pay? Many people get married without even thinking about this. But it was only after marriage that I discovered that as a man, I might have to sacrifice my dreams, work hard to earn money, buy a house, buy a car and buy insurance, not only for the woman behind me, but also for the present and future of my children. Trivial life and busy work will not only make the appearance become vicissitudes, but also make the heart heavy. Over time, life seems to have no hope. Just be a monk for a day and hit the clock for a day.

And what about women? Standing behind a man, it is necessary to manage a good home. From careful planning and utilization of monthly living expenses to remembering to replace the light bulbs in the living room. Compared with men, life will be more trivial. A lot of people don't care, they think that when they get married, they still live as they used to. But many people don't notice that once two people choose to be together, they take on one more responsibility.

This responsibility is not only for the TA beside him, but also for the whole family. Being able to live a good life lies in the refined division of labor between men and women. There is a balance in everything, so there are men and women. Rough versus fine, bold versus tender. If you want to keep the water flowing, you have to be more careful. But controlling desire is the first element - after marriage, one must be loyal to one. Are you tired? Do you feel like your dreams are gone? Do you feel that life is getting more and more stressful? These are normal. As you get older, of course your mentality also changes. But many people cannot accept this fact. Men want to be a MAN who is still young and frivolous, while women want to be a girl who is bees chasing butterflies. But the mountain of life is slowly pressing down, and once it cannot be crossed, the marriage will be broken.

Marriage is a matter of fact. There is an old saying in China, "When you are in your position, you can do your own thing." It may not be very appropriate to use it here, but in society, everyone has different roles. Either the boss, or the employee, or the wife, or the husband. Life will get better and better if you balance everything well.

I envy the beautiful women who are able to balance family and work well. How much effort does it take to ensure that every day is safe and sound? However, many people will always only see others on the surface and do not understand how much bitterness they have swallowed in private. It is easy to be born, easy to live, and difficult to live.

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Fences quotes

  • Troy: Now you tell me who you ever heard of gonna pull their own teeth with a pair of rusty pliers?

    Bono: They're old folks. My granddaddy used to pull his teeth with pliers. They ain't had no dentists for colored folk back then.

    Troy: Well, get clean pliers. You understand? Clean pliers.

  • Rose: I took all my feelings, my wants and needs and dreams, and I buried them inside you. I planted a seed and watched and prayed over it. I planted myself inside you and waited to bloom! And it didn't take me no 18 years to realize the soil was hard and rocky, and it wasn't never gonna bloom!