As Simon's mom said, being gay in the closet is like living with your breath. Before coming out of the closet, Simon's pursuit of blue was rigid. He needed a person who was in a similar situation to him, who agreed with him, accepted him, and allowed him to breathe in an oxygen-deficient environment. He wanted to find blue. Looking for proof this is true. Losing contact with blue is a symbol of the collapse of the world.
But after being out of the closet for a period of time, this pursuit is no longer a necessary condition, because Simon has been recognized and forgiven. At this time, the feelings for blue are more pure love and a long-standing expectation. The ending fell into a rut, because we felt that it was the best ending for Simon to reconcile with the environment around him.
Why don't heterosexuals "come out"? This question is very interesting. Simon said: "No matter what, it's terrible to announce your attributes to the world. What if everyone doesn't like you?" Some are explicit, such as appearance and race; while others are implicit, such as sexual orientation.
Everyone has an emotional private space in their hearts, where the deepest secrets are stored, and they are extremely fragile. For many gays, sexual orientation occupies more than half of the land. So coming out as gay is the equivalent of being naked and being thrown into a downpour.
Perhaps the most advice heard by sexual minorities is to "protect yourself." How to protect? Hide your identity, keep a low profile, and dye yourself a protective color. Over the years, the topic of gays has slowly become a looming public issue, and has entered the life of every citizen to some extent. We all know that in the domestic environment, coming out of gays is not so easy, and it is often accompanied by panic, anger, helplessness, and even family separation. Simon's parents and sister gave us a wonderful version, they cried, as if to say, "I see, it's not easy for you." Love him as always. If parents in this country can also learn about this method, it may bring some inspiration. However, many parents are still in a state of "talking about the same color change". Hope it will be better!
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