If you don't have kids, don't judge it

Lenny 2022-04-23 07:02:12

After the baby is born, in addition to the sensitive sense of smell, it almost lives in chaos. Only faint light can be seen, vague voices can be heard, and only cries can be used to express emotions for the new world. When a child is 4 months old and sees everything in black and white, he is particularly interested in simple black and white drawings. When he was 1 year old, he was able to stand up and walk around by himself, running, to be precise, and he couldn't wait to keep going. When he is 2 years old, he will say all kinds of words, can communicate with you, tell you how he is feeling. Like the lines in the movie - witnessing all this is like witnessing a miracle.

Not everyone has such a good career opportunity like JACK CAMBELL, being able to be a boss, earning millions a month, and living a life without food and clothing. There is an old Chinese saying that poor and humble couples mourn in every way. Such a Chinese view always makes this film weird. But believe me, the author's original meaning is not to make a career-family comparison, not to say that bowling with buddies and skydiving in the MOJAVE desert must be divided, he just wants to tell us - family life is for every man It is still important, and it is no less important than career, because family is the foundation of career and the purpose of career, and we work hard to make the life of our family better.

I don't really want to repeat the plot from the movie, and it doesn't make much sense either. Now my baby is more than 2 years old, there are new changes every day, and every day is very happy. The happiest thing for me is being able to hug her and chat with her after get off work - although I sometimes ignore me, because my father is really not strict. I rarely go out to drink and socialize at night, and I don't want to hang out with my friends when I have nothing to do. But my friends may not be so lucky. With endless overtime, endless business trips, and endless nagging from my wife, I don't even want to go home. Of course that was his own business.

I like being with my children, and I also know that I have to work hard for my children's future life. But I still choose to spare some time every day to spend more time with her and spend more time with her. If you want to read books and study, then wait until she falls asleep. Although it is a bit exhausting, it is worth it - I can't let it live a life like losing a father. As a father, I have to take responsibility for my own obligation.

I think if CAMBELL can't give up in the end, besides KATE, the biggest reason is the child. When going to bed at night, children will squeeze hard into their parents' arms and sleep together with their parents - not because there is not enough space, but because they can have a strong sense of security. So, it's a feeling of needing and being needed, and nothing compares to that.

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The Family Man quotes

  • Suit Salesman: [as Jack is looking at the suit] It's perfect for your frame. Why don't you try it on.

  • Kate: What are you sure about?

    Jack: I'm sure that right now, there's nowhere else I'd rather be than here with you.