What I like about the movie is that after revealing a reality of life, it dares to go the opposite way and end with a less realistic result.
If it was you, you would throw everything away a few days before you were about to get married because you bumped into a little coincidence and tried your best to find the one you met by chance many years ago, had a brief conversation, but spent it together outdoors. A good night and someone who hasn't done those things between a man and a woman?
You might just be thinking about that face that isn't even clear enough late at night, and then keep reminding yourself over and over that you're just a little pre-marital anxiety. You will deliberately suppress that kind of unease and tell yourself that if you are married, the person in front of you is the one you can really see and touch, and you will spend the rest of your life hand in hand.
Judging from the three universal perspectives, the story of this movie seems to be whitewashing the scumbags and scumbags. The lovers who have been with each other for many years are not as good as the distant mole on the heart. This side has a normal and caring personality and is full of expectations. The lover you entered the marriage hall, why did you suddenly stop loving, instead of looking for a stranger in a foreign country who just chatted together and had a little pink bubbles, not only stupid but also a little stupid , but if the movie and reality are the same, what is the meaning of dreaming?
The film itself is dream-making, creating some unreal scenes and characters, telling stories that are difficult to happen in real life, but full of expectations.
And love is everyone's idealism. It cannot be reasonably deduced with the simple logic of "1+1=2", why should it be logical with love? Your love for someone is not the result of logical reasoning, it is the sudden heartbeat of the moment, the unforgettable after turning around, the eagerness to move after the step-by-step process, and the unyielding intention hidden behind the schedule.
When I have seen some unfortunate marriages of my friends and the anxiety before marriage, I feel more and more that the people in the movie who dare to press the pause button at the last moment have invincible courage and dare to face their true heart.
We should accept that everyone has the right to correct their "mistakes". When you have a new definition of love, when you wake up and know what you really want, it is the most painful thing to be wrong, and it is also quite irresponsible the behavior of.
What is it that makes us, in this society, dare not even say "I don't love"?
Personally, I think the best setting of the movie is that the fiancées/husbands of the male and female protagonists are not forcibly turned into scum. They are even kind and considerate, full of love and tolerance for the protagonists, but "good" and "love" are the same. Two things. You said that the decision to cancel the wedding on the day of the wedding was rubbish, but for the male protagonist, he didn't really grow up until then, knowing that his heart was left elsewhere, that escaping could not solve the problem, and that it was good for everyone to stop the loss in time. When I realize that I don't love you anymore, I'd rather carry the title of scum than cancel this marriage that may later become a bondage to a cross.
The world is constantly teaching everyone how to be a good person and how not to hurt others, but sometimes, the real growth is that you dare to be a "bad person", otherwise you have clearly given the distance, but you still try to use "don't want to hurt" The excuse to avoid the problem, it hurts more than the person next to you, how cowardly, after all, there are really not so many things in this world that have the best of both worlds.
You have to admit, it's a lot better than getting into a marriage and cheating on someone after a period of insanity.
Just like the friend of the male protagonist in the movie said: "Maybe we're laying here, because you don't want to be standing somewhere else."
I wish you to find the love of your heart.
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