I really agree with a film review that this movie has nothing to do with derailment, but only about growth.
How should life go on when the trivialities of the mundane life of marriage wipe out our passion?
I have heard a lot of confusing accounts of middle-aged marriages. Infidelity and dating are very common. It is just to see who has the best hidden skills and is not discovered. Since the birth of the child, there has been no sex. Men spend the night with young ladies and play with inflatable dolls at home. The two have a good relationship with each other outside, and the middle-aged marriage is boring and exciting. Human beings seem to be so naive. When life is worry-free, they will always dislike plainness and are full of impulse and yearning for passion.
Betrayal seems to be morally corrupt, but in fact, it is hidden in the hearts of most middle-aged and elderly people with longing. Freshness is always a fatal attraction. Sexual impulse is the driving force for human beings to survive, so don’t deceive yourself. In fact, everyone’s heart is the same. There are also many, many films and books trying their best to find excuses for extramarital affairs, saying that it is love, but in fact, once you fall into it, when you are in a vortex, you will find that passion is the most fragile, passion only exists when it is boring, and love is the most boring, only for teenagers and girls. In the era, it is simply mindless to say extramarital love.
I once had a male colleague who was the director of the emergency department, and his wife was also a doctor in the same hospital. Life was very happy. But when the power is in hand, he will get carried away and get involved with another female doctor in the emergency department, and finally divorce and marry this female doctor. When the years became dull again, he said to the young people in the department, don't be confused, don't play extramarital affairs, don't divorce, it's too tired. His remarks are ridiculous in the eyes of men, who think they are cheap and good, but in the eyes of women they deserve it.
The film and this emergency department director actually mean the same thing.
Love, for young girls, can be compared with life, and can give up the whole world for each other. But extramarital affairs means just passion, giving up the whole world for the other party, easier said than done? Bewitched by sexual urges and passions, but once you think about the responsibility and the past, the passion is ridiculously small.
Therefore, for married people, love and passion have been the themes of the first half of life, and the rest of life should not pay for it. Life is very big, and there are actually more things worth pursuing. Be sure to remember the way you came, and don't get lost.
In fact, I think the other sub-line, the line of pedophile perverts and retired police officers, looks better. In fact, I am also prejudiced and discriminated against this pedophile pervert. When we talk about these perverts in our lives, we always hope that the government will take action to cut off their JJ directly. Seriously, this is a disease, and I don’t know how medically can change it, but it’s really abominable. But what does the film say, to show the other side of their lives, he is also the mother's baby, and the mother protects her child until she dies, even though this child is seen as evil by others, what should I do? You can only love him, ah, motherly love, always makes people feel soft. This escapist policeman is another kind of paranoid patient with another mental problem.
Facing the reality, whether it is dull, boring, or regretful, we should not escape, we should face the problem head-on. With the help of passion and self-righteousness to escape, you will eventually harm others and yourself, and eventually regret it. The final ending of the film is really too forgiving. That night, everyone woke up. The heroine woke up to the innocence of the child, the absurdity of the behavior, and the most important thing in life is the child. The male protagonist realizes that passion is not what he wants. Passion is like a ball game. Although it can stimulate vitality, it will eventually return to the dull reality. The police realize that their behavior is outrageous and kill another life again. What you think is fair may actually be another evil. The pedophile realizes that in order for others to accept him, it is the right way to regulate his own behavior. Although it is a bit extreme to cut off JJ, the mother's discipline must be kept in mind, Be a good child.
Be a good child, I was very conflicted when I was young, but maybe this is the biggest goal in life, wake up early and become a good person? !
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