In the family, my brother is favored. Although he is only less favored than his brother, it will make the heroine feel bad and unloved. Dad can occasionally make the heroine feel happy. This kind of happiness also means a kind of acceptance, but it is hung up, so it is sad for the heroine, and it is also the beginning of being more neglected in the family, and the acceptance is also broken.
A little girl friend has always been a kind of consolation. To be disliked at school may be because ordinary children simply feel bullied, or they are bullied and unlikable, but because of the heroine's family environment, the heroine will feel I am more unpopular and not liked, I am not good, the consolation of the little girlfriend is like an outlet, and acceptance, however, the girlfriend and brother are together, and they seem to be like the heroine's parents again, I chose to prefer my brother, so for the heroine, choosing my brother is like a denial of her, so the heroine hopes that the best friend can choose one of the two, just like a showdown, the best friend chooses the heroine... So the hostess couldn't come here.
When the heroine faces the scene of her best friend and her brother, she will be abandoned (party), or it will be difficult to face the situation, like it is better to face her brother, she is not good, so she chooses not to face it , This is a very difficult thing for the heroine, and there will be a lot of emotions, but the mother did not understand and accept the heroine at this time. Instead, she gave more rude verbal stimulation and some hope that she would not worry about people. The request not to cause trouble, so the heroine is stimulated by her mother, and the mother herself is basically a person with little power. After her husband dies, she has to face the family by herself. In fact, she can't bear it. Daughter The room was so messed up that she didn't know if her daughter was safe. She was anxious, but the action she took was to isolate the anxiety. She wanted to throw away all the messed things up by her daughter. In fact, if her daughter came back, it would cause another war, because her daughter Things are thrown away and are not respected in this family.
When the heroine is repeatedly stimulated by life, her approach is to get close to another person, a method that she wants to use to establish contact and closeness with others, such as texting a crush on a man, such as the teacher, she is eager to get relationship, but when the crush man knows that he just desires sex and is not interested in the heroine, the heroine breaks down.
Also, when the teacher was talking to the heroine, when she bluntly said that you are a person who is not liked, the heroine is angry because this is a scar (the brother is liked, but she is not liked), stimulated to attack.
At the end of the dialogue between the heroine's brother and the heroine, the first sentence of rushing back to the teacher's house is to say that you are right (forgot the specifics), with a positive opening remark for the heroine (the heroine is estimated that she has not received it at home. Positively affirmed), this opening remarks is very good, enough to attract the attention of the heroine, because she has never gotten it in this family, the meaning of the dialogue that follows is roughly I feel that it means that my brother is actually concerned about this family, for this family He is willing to pay (applying for a school close to home), and he is also concerned that the heroine does all this not for the exclusive favor that the heroine imagined, and the brother hardly had any dialogue with the heroine before.
After the heroine came home, I thought it was very courageous to have a conversation with my brother. I could let go of the psychological grudges caused by my parents' preference, and openly said that I was not good with my brother, and then my brother gave the heroine a hug. This is a kind of The attention and acceptance of family members is important.
Then the heroine got up on a new day, with strength (never got up so early, my brother and mother were surprised), and then when replying to my mother's message, she took care of the anxious mother's mood and understood her mother's anxiety, so I said The only thing is that I am safe now. The news that my mother called is actually still anxious. I have to reply immediately. Later, I delete it and hit ok, which means that my mother has also gained strength and can put down her anxiety and trust her daughter. This is also related to the change of her daughter.
Then the family was fine again.
I've been wondering why the female protagonist didn't choose an Asian man at first, but had a crush on a man, and finally chose an Asian man when she had the power. In this film, the Asian man is the representative of power, which is worth pondering~
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