Looking back, after spending so much time watching this beautiful soap opera, something had to be saved, but what? There is a bit of confusion in my head, and there is still a shadow for 24 hours, so I can just write whatever comes to my mind, and treat it as an essay.
1. Friendship
Is love important, or friendship more important? Most people will choose love. People who are in love always keep their friends aside, but most of the lovers who pass by in your life will make you fall out of love, and the last remaining love will gradually become family love. A friend, however, will not give you heart-breaking pain, but will also heal you. When you're in love, you can't get through it without friends. American dramas now emphasize friendship. The four women in the film are much more resolute in their attitude towards friendship than towards love. Is this because modern people have lost confidence in the longevity of love? Love stops and goes, only friends can always accompany you when you need it. So although this is a drama about love, the most important thing in the drama is not love, but friendship.
Second, the attitude of friends The authorities are
obsessed , bystanders are clear, and love is the same. When a woman encounters love, she always loses her judgment. As her friend, watching her struggle, what kind of attitude should she use? Help her regain her senses? Persuade her to cut off the water? Or accompany her when she needs it, listen to what she has to say, without making any subjective judgments? It's really hard. The women in the film have also encountered such problems all the time. They are anxious and angry for their friends, but there is no help.
I also tried to pull my friend out of the emotional whirlpool like a savior, but the result was that my friend was even more confused and miserable. Later, I found that the superior rescue I did to my friend only comforted my conscience, not my friend. help. Love is inherently unreasonable. Since you choose love, you must be prepared to be hurt. So now, I think, I will no longer force my friends to accept my subjective opinion, although I think that is the only way out, I will only say to my friends: "No matter what, please try to reduce the damage to yourself. To the smallest."
3. Control the man.
Samantha is a flamboyant woman with countless men around her. She thinks that she will not fall in love, but she met a rich and affectionate playboy, and the two fell in love. But the man could control his upper body but couldn't control his lower body. She caught the playboy's cheating. The Playboy apologized in every possible way, promising she would never be sad again, and they reconciled. But Samantha is frightened every time she sees the beauty passing by the Playboy, she does not believe that he will change his ways. One day on vacation, the playboy told her that he was going to have a meeting in the room. Samantha thought he was cheating, so he climbed up to the 11th floor wearing a pearl T-BACK, only to find that he was really just having a meeting. Samantha found out She has become a stupid and suspicious woman for love, so she made a wise decision to leave and stop worrying.
I've always been against controlling men. I think men can't be controlled and can only rely on self-consciousness. , the consequences of taking care of men are, first, make yourself stupid and suspicious; second, make men more and more annoying, it may be annoying, but it is not a good thing to make men afraid; third, you are tired When half dead, nervous, and losing interest in everything, a man can still find all kinds of excuses and opportunities to smuggle if he wants to. Therefore, managing a man is the least cost-effective investment. For a man you think you can't manage, giving up is the smartest choice. In fact, if a man has reached the point where you can't trust you and make you feel safe, what's the point of keeping this man? Might as well kick him out of the house with his smelly socks.
4. Principles
Kelly is a woman who dares to love and hate. For love, she can make a lot of sacrifices and make a lot of concessions. She has always been smart and she will lose her judgment when she meets Mr.big, and she will be a mess. But encountering a problem of principle, she left firmly. But the principle is to hate strange things. Kelly left big again and again for her own principles, but she was disconnected again and again. In the end, her principles could be satisfied, but she chose to be a good friend. I admire Kelly very much. Although she was lost in love, she finally found herself and regained her confidence. Such a woman is full of charm.
In fact, love is not everything. We still have friendship, beauty, and wisdom. Sometimes, changing the angle will make our life happier. Give up love, maybe you will get more.
Five, fashion show.
Even if this TV is full of shit, I am willing to watch for dozens of hours for the beautiful clothes in the show, which is one of the reasons why I recommend this film to MMs. The four heroines in the play dress in different styles, Kelly is fashionable, Charlotte is ladylike, Miranda is professional, Samantha is mature, but the common feature of the four women is sexy. All the styles in the film are from the hands of top stylists and costumers in New York, and this fashion show is not as shocking as the catwalk, but it is practical, and the collocation and color can be used as a reference for MM's dressing. But LMs, don't watch it, or you will bleed while watching, beauty has to be paid for with money.
Sixth, the period of
lovelorn recovery The recovery time of a brokenhearted love needs half of the love time. If you have been in love for one year, it will take half a year to recover. At this time, the law of broken love, everyone, test whether it is correct.
7. 3P
Although this is a drama about sex, and there are a lot of sex scenes in which the upper body is in a vacuum, the 3P in the film always stops. Every time I encounter 3P in a play, I always encounter one or another problem, which causes the three people to not be able to walk together. Does this also represent a critical line of American TV?
8. Environment
Miranda, a partner in a law firm with a successful career, calls herself a motherless person. After she broke up with her boyfriend Steve, she found out that she was pregnant. Without mother's love, she decided to give birth to the child alone. After Steve knew her decision, he proposed to her, she refused, because she knew that there was no love between them now, she just calmly allocated time to take care of the children with Steve.
This is a brave woman who dares to face all the difficulties alone, and she does not need the charity of a man. At this time I envy, because if it were me, I think I do not have her courage. However, the reason why she is so brave is also because she has a kind social environment. If she were in China, the child would not have a birth certificate and would be called an illegitimate child, and Miranda would be looked at instead of blessed by others. When will we be able to have such an environment?
9. True love
Some people say that when you are about to die, the person you are thinking of is your true love. Even a friend of mine, in order to confirm his true love, pinched his neck with his hands, and then felt that he was about to die. At that time, he felt that he was thinking of a MM he just broke up with, and he thought that was his true love. I really wanted to scold him for the dog history, but for the sake of being a lady, I didn't scold him. I told him that your purpose of courting death is not pure, so the result doesn't count. In fact, I don't really believe in true love, especially in this era of social and information explosion, it's impossible for a person to love only one person in a lifetime, except of course there is no chance. So Charlotte in the play said that the book says that a person will have two true loves in a lifetime, but I still don't quite believe it. Since it can be done twice, why not three or four times? In fact, it is really stupid for people to think about true love. In my opinion, he (she) who is by your side now is your favorite now. What will happen next, who knows?
Closing remarks The
reason for the end is not to finish what I want to say, but because it is time to go to bed. Recently, there are many MMs on the altar who are in emotional troubles. I hope they can let themselves live and get rid of them as soon as possible.
Tomorrow, we will start work again. I wish everyone can face the cold ass of the leader with the brightest smile.
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