When you were still young and frivolous, you felt that love was all you had, right? As beautiful as Carrie's first love poem to Big: "Ever thine, ever mine, ever ours." The man you are dating, he will never actually understand how you feel when you have sex, and he may have sex with you only because of loneliness, boredom, habit or curiosity. On the contrary, you and your best friend can discuss each other's hips and body hair without restraint behind closed doors, exchange the most blushing, most intimate Girl's talk, and then hug and laugh together.
Slightly older, you start to get pregnant. Your bladder is getting more and more uncomfortable, your hormones are becoming more and more unstable, and your body is seriously deformed. When you are tearful and pitiful to your man, you certainly hope that he will cast an affectionate look and gently treat you. He put his arms in his arms and said, "Baby, I've worked hard for you, and I will definitely treat you well." Well, the truth is often that he couldn't help showing disgust and impatience, and he might even interrupt your conversation rudely. : "Enough, that's not how any woman is pregnant with a child." Then go on playing his video games or reading computer magazines. Look at your besties again, they will hold your hand and share your fears, touch your belly and talk to BB, tell you jokes to soothe your emotions, accompany you shopping for baby products, and talk to you Let's name the upcoming little life together.
Then it's time for you to be older. Just like the 4 girlfriends in the movie, over 40 years old, no amount of advanced cosmetics can hide those abominable wrinkles, they arrogantly climb up to the corners of your eyes, neck and knees. At this time, do you still hope that your man will love you undividedly as always? Maybe his heart has already begun to stir, looking for his Lolita. What about you? Aside from makeup and Botox, the most likely thing you need is a die-hard bestie. They know everything about you better than your man, because they go through menopause with you and experience every painful change that aging brings to a woman's body and mind, and you will fight against the years together firmly.
Oh, and if it's worse, I mean if, like, your man betrays you, or leaves you, you at least have good sisters who yell "No! No!" at that bad guy, at least Have girlfriends who will be by your side no matter what. Then you'll be at least as confident and glamorous as the women in the movies, no longer young.
Having said all that, you may think that my view of men is too one-sided, too negative, like a grudge. I'm not hating men, I just want you to know more about that side of reality. Perhaps to borrow a line Carrie said to little Lily: "You know this is just a fairy tale, right? Princes and princesses may not be happy forever. I think you should have known better."
Dear girlfriends, you know.
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