It turns out that girlfriend's nickname is "unreliable"

Kirsten 2022-12-05 23:40:58

So far, the only American drama that has been able to watch it again after a period of time is "Sex and the City". At first it was just curious because of the name. After watching a few episodes, I was attracted, such a lively rhythm and new "male" dramas, no matter how you look at it, you can be happy. American dramas are like popcorn, delicious but not very memorable, only a momentary pleasure of taste. The only way to keep feeling good is to keep eating, from blueberry-flavored medical drama to creamy family drama, orange-flavored teen drama to grape-flavored women's drama.

Now the "grapes" are finally going to be "wine", so they have more gorgeous costumes than ever before, a sweeter and more touching plot, and a happy ending that is as round as the belly of a wine glass.

But, but, I suddenly realized that this dreamy "girlfriend" is so unreliable.

Just imagine, if it wasn't for the failure of Carrie's marriage, Miranda's Christmas Eve wouldn't be so warm, right? What were the other two doing at that time? Of course, it was a warm and romantic relationship with their lover. Carrie slept alone in her original small apartment, and Miranda was alone in her new home, so she had a warm hug accompanied by Christmas carols. What if carrie got married? What if miranda doesn't separate again? What if these two could only happen one at a time?

What will your bestie say at your pre-wedding party, especially with your husband-to-be? Look at what miranda said, marriage is not what you think at all, I don't understand why you want to get married? ! We can understand, because miranda just met steve, and he couldn't bear to get angry at him, and the lingering fire didn't go away. And Mr.big went up to talk to her in such an uninteresting way. But, but but, who is Miranda? She is an excellent female lawyer who graduated from Harvard Law School. Even if she is angry, she should know that she is here today for the party of two people who are about to get married. As a lawyer, rationality and calmness should have already changed from a professional requirement to a personal characteristic, right? Moreover, as a person who has grown up for a long time, it is a basic quality to distinguish the situation between things and people, right? Everything is so incompatible with miranda.

But this matter is explained from the perspective of a woman, and it can be explained. A man whose husband is cheating and whose marriage is in jeopardy, facing such a joyous and festive party, hearing those touching marriage wishes, watching a pair of people sticking together like honey, smiling like a flower, what should he feel in his heart ? In addition to Gu Ying's self-pity and pretending to be smiling, there should be some resentment. "All women are peers", even if they are peers, they must be contemptuous of each other. What's more, tonight she has sufficient reasons and conditions out of mind, and


then said Miranda, it's not just her, maybe it's human nature to "schadenfreude, not seeing other people's good". Miranda's situation at that time must not be miserable, and Carrie's buying a new house and buying new clothes on the other side, the happiness is so bling bling. For S and C, who are already in happiness, it is not difficult to appreciate this dazzling happiness. But M, who is in deep adversity, has not had sex for six months. I believe that it is because of difficulties at work that his personal life has been affected so much. Looking at Carrie's happiness at a time of internal and external difficulties, it should not be dazzling but "dazzling".

In the TV series, every time they sit together, the most important thing to chat about is their relationship. But thinking about it carefully, that's because they almost never have a window, at least not during the time before and after the party, otherwise it would be impossible to communicate about men. This is the "flowing steady state" of the four people - a flowing man, a stable and not empty window. Just imagine, if there is a person who has been left without a window for a relatively long period of time, then that person must disappear from the group. Because Gu Ying felt self-pity and sadness when listening to the empty window person, and the person who did not have the empty window took into account the feelings of the empty window person and communicated unhappily. In this way, in order to maintain an intimate relationship with friends, it is necessary to maintain a relatively synchronized pace. It's not easy in reality, but these four people can, because they are gorgeous, charming, and keep dating. Back to reality, since it is impossible to achieve synchronization in the same person or group of people, at least it can be sought in different people. Some people blow horns against you, when you find someguy, some people drink celebration wine with you, when you get someguy, someone has to curse madly with you, when you were hurt by someguy. In the end, when you and someone's final ronta sonata plays, someone still has to be by your side to dry your tears and accompany you to regroup. Eggs can never be put in one basket, for yourself and for everyone.

In the end, M and C reconciled. I think they would have reconciled even without that Christmas Eve. The reason I love you and be your friend is not how nice you are, on the contrary, cause I 'm your friend, I know how bitchy you are but still love you, and on your side, forever and ever.

Because they are best friends, they love each other. Also because they are best friends, they are jealous of each other and destroy each other. The more you love each other, the more you want to spoil them, just like Man Zhen and Man Lu (best friends are not sisters).

In fact, all of this is just because, if you go, I don't know what to do by myself.

And I don't want to be alone.

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Sex and the City quotes

  • Carrie Bradshaw: What does your gut tell you?

  • Enid Frick: Forty is the last age a woman can be photographed in a wedding dress without the unintended Diane Arbus subtext.