It's love to separate or not to separate

Lessie 2022-10-21 02:48:54

Saw the movie version of Sex and City last night. In fact, I think this is more similar to the theatrical version of Japanese cartoons, a movie-length TV series. Each of the four women has their own happiness and their own unhappiness, but in the end, they all found their own happiness.

Samantha is still the classic I love you but I love me more. She has worked hard, she loves Jerry very much, but in the end she left him. Sometimes it's not because you don't love yourself. At one point I said "no matter what happens, as long as you are still in love, don't separate". But now I don't think so anymore. There are many frustrations in life that cannot be overcome. Then, it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes.

Charlotte is always so happy, this beautiful and lovely woman, a little bit of irritability makes her life more perfect, her husband, children, girlfriend... so jealous!

Miranda's marital crisis made me reflect on myself. Just the day before, I thought this matter was really unforgivable. If I encountered it, I would have chosen to leave without saying a word like Miranda. But after seeing her and Steve being enlightened by a psychologist, I realized a level I hadn't thought about. This is not only to let go of harshness and tolerance of the other party. When you think you are absolutely right and decide to do things, isn't it a kind of harm to the other party? In fact, no one is completely right in a relationship, and everyone is wrong. It takes time to understand this truth, and it takes even more time to truly do it from the heart.

Finally, let's talk about Carrie, she and Mr.Big have been entangled for so long that someone asked how many times they broke up before they were together? 15 times, Carrie said. Carrie also said they had done everything to hurt each other's feelings. In fairy tales, the princess and the prince fell in love at first sight, and lived happily ever after until their gray hairs. But real life is not like that. We will make each other happy, and we will make each other sad, but true love can withstand all these tortures, and must also go through some painful twists and turns. After something so unforgivable, after anger, after weeping, after numbness, what makes us embrace each other with relative smiles? It's the word on the key pendant, the password that opens the heart - Love

Before watching this movie, what I knew was that Carrie said in the opening line that every girl comes to New York for two L-Label, Love; after watching it, I remember that Beethoven wrote it nearly a hundred years ago Love Letter Words:
Ever Thine
Ever Mine
Ever Ours

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Extended Reading

Sex and the City quotes

  • Carrie Bradshaw: What does your gut tell you?

  • Enid Frick: Forty is the last age a woman can be photographed in a wedding dress without the unintended Diane Arbus subtext.