It was the first drama I watched with a very depressing tone. The people who were depressed in the drama, if there was no heroine, would maintain the appearance of calm on the surface. The deepest impression is at the beginning of an episode, people look normal in the subway car, but their hearts are roaring with the music again and again, and then they return to normal, and they struggle again and again. The heroine feels that she is a bit positive, she is pure to the point, but she is very helpless, but also a person who is indifferent. For example, sometimes she would go crazy with her sister for a second and greet others with a smile for a second, and complain frankly and indifferently in front of the camera, just like every ordinary you and me who try to dredge their emotions.
At first, I didn't understand why the heroine would lead her life like this. After seeing it, I realized that it is not a simple matter to analyze the reasons behind a person's behavior. Everyone has struggled times, and also has an indescribable past and unspeakable pain, so what we can do is not to easily judge and label what others have done, and add another word to others. Wounds...Every action in the show has a reason behind it, and knowing the reason makes it hard to tell if it's right or wrong. Just like the heroine's father in the play, I always think he is a villain. Everything he does in the play will disappoint his daughter, make her feel insecure, affect their normal life, and have no family care. It wasn't until later that I saw that he would arrange an examination for my daughter, and at the end she asked her daughter, "Then do you miss your friend?" I found out that he still misses his deceased wife, and I just labeled him a nasty villain. Label.
In real life, the viewers watching the TV series of life become you and me who observe other people's lives, and they are also being observed by others. It is a way to protect yourself that the heroine is so heartless that she will go back when she is said. But on the other hand, I still hope that people can be more friendly, instead of seeing a one-sided behavior and arbitrarily defining their nature. People who don't care what other people think don't care (or just pretend they don't), but people who care can be hurt by some misunderstood remarks.
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But in fact, the idea of "I hope everyone can be friendly" is also selfish from some perspectives. Because although the purpose is to hope that there are fewer people who are not on the right track in life, it can also be divided into two driving forces, which can be understood as follows: I hope that those who are struggling can be hurt less and strive to live a good life; it can also be understood in this way. : I hope everyone will stop provoking those struggling people, and try to avoid their irregular life affecting themselves or hurting innocent people... So, some so-called help or encouragement may also be hypocritical, if someone is sensitive To this extent, the apparent indifference and inaction can be regarded as a kind of help.
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