A few thoughts:
1. Eva didn't catch a cold at A, but sparks arose when the two were dating for the first time. The part of the meal just reminded me of the content of how to build attractiveness in the "Intimacy" I watched some time ago. If I teach this course, then this paragraph can not be more suitable as a material. Simply put, we all like people who are similar to us. According to this principle, if you want to establish a relationship with someone, you must imitate the other person appropriately and without leaving a trace. Of course, if two people are really attracted to each other, then they will imitate each other unconsciously and naturally. For example, if the other party takes a sip of a drink, then you have to take a sip in time; if the other party smiles, you should also follow along. For example, A said that Eva's hands are not like the hands of a masseuse, and they are very beautiful. At this time, Eva said that A's hands are what happened; Eva said that he was old, and A said that he did not like young people.
2. Eva and her ex-husband divorced because of the specific reasons. It is not stated in the film. However, in some gatherings, Eva's ex-husband ordered cookies. Eva said that no one should order cookies, but his ex-husband still ordered them. Eva said that you were like this before, you bought it and didn't eat it, but I wanted to eat it, which made me gain weight. For this two people chattered endlessly. Eva’s ex-husband’s current girlfriend said that you can control your mouth. A was described as confused by his ex-wife. In the original words, "he is a loser", but in Eva's eyes, it is not. What's wrong with obesity? What if there is no bedside table.
So a good marriage is whether we are willing to tolerate some of the shortcomings of each other. Or to put it another way, whether the other party's shortcomings happen to be what you care about very much. For example, some people think that your sister doesn't have to buy so many mouthwashes without any problems, and my old lady can't stand it; but some people don't care. So be sure to find someone who smells like you. I only care for the comfortable feeling when we gather together.
3. I appreciate the relationship between adults and children in the film, which is truly equal. Especially good friends of Eva and her daughter, when she is hiding whether to sleep with her boyfriend, Eva's advice is why not try. She is dating A herself, she also tells her daughter and her friends, and listens to their opinions. This kind of equal relationship is worth learning for each of us.
4. A's daughter is going to school in another place. Although A does not want her daughter to leave her, he still respects her daughter's opinions. Eva was the same. Her daughter was going to go to school in another place, and she was worried and worried about all kinds of things, but in the end she watched her enter the station alone. By the way, this paragraph touched me a little bit. I think of what Long Yingtai said, the so-called father-daughter mother-child only means that the relationship between you and him, in this life and this world, is constantly drifting away from the back of watching him. You stand on the platform and he stands. On the other side of the platform, tell you not to chase from behind. However, our Chinese parents seem to understand too little of this truth, or even if they do, they can’t do it. They always hope that their children can listen to their own words and stay by their side.
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