I remember one of the high-scoring answers on Zhihu to "In the relationship between men and women, what things and opinions do men want women to understand earlier?" is "I really hope you have your own life". This question is just about being in a relationship, not in a marriage, and it's a bit cruel. In a marriage, especially in a family with children, if one party is too dependent on the other, it is bound to put a lot of pressure on the dependent party. "I don't know how to change the light bulb?", "I don't dare to drive, give me a ride." This kind of solution can only be solved by planting one husband in spring, and then growing ten husbands in autumn. But if in a relationship, especially in a passionate relationship, when a man or a woman says "I hope you have your own life", "I hope you have a little private space of your own", then it can only mean that the TA is no longer in a pure love. What is pure love? Even if she cut off her hair, and he sold his ancestral gold watch, they would die for each other without hesitation. Like When Carol drives through the Lincoln Tunnel, Therese wants the tunnel to collapse and crush them both to death (psychological activity in the novel). Extreme isn't it? Because here is not the kind of emotion that is divorced and still relying on each other, whether you call it family affection or great love, but pure love, not only exclusive but exclusive.
The background of "Carol" is the United States in the middle of the last century. The social atmosphere is conservative. In addition, it is the forbidden love of two women. Their emotional development is very restrained. It's bound to be a little cold. But as Cate said in an interview before, she has read a lot of books and movies about the same sex in order to play this role well. Of course, this list must include "Blue is the warmest color", which was also famous in Cannes. ", Cate said "Blue" is not what they want to achieve. So in this movie less eroticism, but with the electric-stunned look in Therese's eyes the first time she met Carol; Carol looked back only to say "I like your hat" to Therese (actually a shabby regular Santa hat); Therese sitting in the co-pilot turned a deaf ear to all Carol's problems because Therese was too happy and just wanted to flug out of space, she was afraid it was all just a dream; When Carol said she would be away for a while, Therese The last bit of strength in her body was drained. She was surprised and angry, completely forgetting that they had only met a few days ago, and asked Carol blankly "When and where are you going?"; and when Carol suddenly asked Therese if she would Therese was like a soul just rescued from hell when she was on the road with herself, and the joy came so suddenly, "yes, of course I will", leaving everything just to be with you, and therese was so desperate to control herself The corners of her mouth were turned up, but it was difficult to find out; also, Carol saw Therese passing by in the taxi, and for a moment, the feelings she had suppressed for more than a month erupted like a volcano, and at that moment she knew that she could no longer hold on. Going down, Carol smiled slightly when the camera zoomed out, she had made a decision that was true to her heart... Many such small details express their position in each other's hearts. The director of some shots is so understated that it takes several times to see his intentions. Some people say that Therese in the movie is very passive compared to the novel. Coupled with Carol's strong aura, sometimes Therese feels like a sheep that has been eaten. In fact, I think it's just a difference in the performance of the two people due to their different age, status and experience. Therese is an ignorant little girl who has just entered the society and doesn't even understand what she wants. And Carol is a young woman in the upper class. She doesn't have to do things she doesn't like to support herself. She has experienced an unfortunate marriage and has also been involved in same-sex relationships, so she can deal with most things. No matter how big the waves are, she will have an expression that matches her identity on her face. This leads to the fact that therese looks like Therese is staring at Carol every time throughout the movie, and Carol is mostly casual and slightly teasing.