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Children are given a given identity from birth - "helpless" or "invincible", what can they eat? What can you try? What kind of clothes to wear? What kind of environment to come into contact with, he cannot tolerate his choice! At the age of 3, he said "no". At the age of 18, he was extremely rebellious. In fact, he wanted to escape from the established identity given by his parents. Although the identity given by his parents was not completely arbitrary, it was at least comfortable, without taking risks, and without experiencing uncertainty! It's like walking on a road that you are used to, and suddenly you find a fork in the road. Are you hesitating, worried, or even afraid to go to that fork? That fork may have a beautiful view, it may be a shortcut, it may be full of mud, or it may be necessary. Turn around and come back, no one can tell you. Go on your own, bear the anxiety caused by this uncertainty along the way, even if it is a U-turn, the adversity needs to be borne by yourself, and you can't complain. Your parents may say to you, don't go there, it's dangerous! Then don't leave. When you are bored, you can complain that your parents won't let you go!
When parents say "don't go over, it's dangerous", when parents' own needs are greater than their children's needs and they don't allow their children to be themselves. This parent may be in control, or may be insecure. In any case, these are passed on to the child, and it also causes trouble for the child's choice, and even becomes more urgent. Such a child may have to break free through a more risky way and become himself. !
This is a story about challenges, all challenges and adventures, on the surface, are looking for excitement and trying ways that have never been tried, but fundamentally, they are saying goodbye to the past!
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"Fate Live" tells the story of how young people grow up and become themselves, strangers kiss, it is about sex, the experience of going from girls to women! To wear expensive clothes is to gain social status! Blind racing is a search for life, what is life and what is death, if you have the urge to die, you want to kill yourself in the past! Destroying social rules and testing the rules is to find the boundaries of your own rules! But in the comfort zone, despite the unwillingness, it is stable. From here, everyone has different choices! You'll see kids who keep complaining, or adults who take it upon themselves! That is, the four types of people in the movie:
Players: represented by the heroine, the heroine is controlled by her mother (all accounts and residences must be with her mother); covered by her girlfriend (clean up the mess for Xiaoxi, always follow Xiaoxi); Overwhelmed by the deceased brother! She is a person who is overwhelmed by the "identity" of these people. If she wants to find herself, she needs to overcome even greater obstacles! Her opportunity lies in "a good friend confessing on her behalf". Compared with the pain of broken love, living under the wings of a friend has deeply stimulated her self-esteem. Yes, competition is also an opportunity to find an identity.
Xiaoxi: She didn't have a clear identity to look for. Unlike the heroine, she made it clear that she wanted to be herself! On the surface, Xiaoxi seems to want to get attention. The so-called attention means appearing in front of everyone, which means that she has always felt that she is not seen by others! "Being seen by others" is a complete dependence, not trying to find yourself, but wanting to be yourself in the eyes of others! In the end, what decided her to fail was that she could try, but there was always a way out, and the big deal was to continue to return to the original comfort zone!
Audience: Want to challenge, want to be yourself, have no courage, or be controlled to death! So let others play what you want to break through without taking any responsibility! Be a kid who always complains!
Captive: A person who has broken the rules of the game, that is, once he cannot find himself in this way, he will lose his original identity, such as the male protagonist! The heroine almost flinched like Xiaoxi. She told the police that she was relying on the adult world and wanted to retreat to her original identity. When she found that there was no way to retreat, she became a prisoner and had no way to retreat. can move forward!
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