From the preparation of the two sides to peacefully deal with the child fighting incident, - let the child who beat someone apologize - whether the child who beat someone can really recognize the mistake - whether it is necessary to force a child to understand so deeply, and the form can be done - The four parties and three views are different, the living environment is different, and the way of thinking is different (the original family has not been mentioned differently) - a series of disputes caused.
Not from how to get along in the world of children,
Not from how education should guide children,
Whether it is moral or immoral,
Not from civilization and barbarism,
Not from the noble and the ugly,
Not from falsehood and truth,
Not from violence and forbearance,
Never be stingy and open-minded,
Do not discuss it in terms of mercenary and integrity (medical side effects), because these are human nature.
In fact, this is a small theater for the expression of three views, like a drama, adults are like this, what they say is fragmented, and their mental thinking is constantly affected by trivialities.
Different people have different voices, and it is difficult to force others to understand or recognize, but people are social animals and like to be close, so it is impossible to be so lonely and wise.
This is the beginning of everyone maintaining social etiquette and getting along, and later revealing their true inner thoughts.
Because after all, I want others to understand, I have to express if I don’t understand, and I have to vent and say it if I don’t accept it.
What is human nature? Most human nature is selfish first and foremost. If we recognize this, then so many conflicts and contradictions can be understood.
We are facing people with all kinds of prejudice and colored eyes. Why are we arguing? If others agree with your words, then there will be no quarrel. The concept of human rights is also part of human rights, but it is an ideal setting. Many times we do not want to respect it, we are too lazy to think and understand, and we have no energy to deal with it. Human nature is like this, but the development of social environment requires everyone to maintain and express harmony. Yes, that kind of "harmony" is not hypocritical and ugly, it is the product of a civilized society and a peaceful society, and it is worthy of respect.
What is filial piety, Confucius' answer is: "color is difficult".
In fact, it is not only filial piety, but it is also difficult to face the people around. So, that bunch of tulips, that apple-pear pie, that coffee, that whiskey, that peacemaker,
The couples who came in a hurry, recognized the injury and economic loss, and asked the child to come to the door to apologize, all of which hoped to actively solve the problem, and they were all great.
It’s like if a person loses his life in an accident, the law imposes a penalty and awards compensation, and the loser asks whether human life can be measured, and the answer is no, but it must be punished. Of course not satisfied, but only to accept the reality.
The attitude of the wife who disagrees but is submissive, the woman who doesn't like the chores of the children's school and the family, the person who accompanies the wife with all the mobile phones, in fact, it is all responsibility, not enjoyment, all willing to endure for others and relatives What is measured and compromised with each other is just satisfaction or dissatisfaction, whether the satisfaction is agreed or not, and whether the reality is accepted. And all the roars and irritability are also helplessness to ourselves, but these do not affect our return to normal life after venting and grow old slowly.
I don't have a deep opinion and know very little, so I took the urge to read it and wrote down the essay. . .
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