The film explores marriage, children, values. I have to say that the actors are very powerful and explosive. Because the children were fighting, the parents of both sides sat together to discuss the solution. Although at the beginning, the parents of both sides tried their best to be rational and sensible, to avoid conflicts and blame each other.
The mother of the child who was beaten showed that she cared about it from the beginning, felt that the other child was really sorry for it, and cared about social rules and morals.
Couples' attitudes toward each other range from feeling good about the other to feeling terrible.
The atmosphere of the whole film is full of open and secret struggles, and the invisible "swords and shadows" are constantly flooded, from the right and wrong of the children of both sides to the debate of the right and wrong of the parents of both sides, to the mutual criticism of the values of the husband and wife, and finally to the indiscriminate personalities. attack.
It is very important for both parties to become husband and wife. In this film, both mothers feel that the father should be present. I personally think that this is because the child is a matter for both parties, and should not be handled by one person, while the mother usually handles the internal affairs of the family. The things that make the mother exhausted and keep suppressing her emotions. And my father never cared about that, always absent from education.
There is an interesting detail in the film: the mother of the father of the beaten child did not want to be buried with his father, but wanted to be buried elsewhere. The father of the beaten child also cares about his mother very much.
In the later part of the film, the mother of the beaten child was very angry, her blue veins burst, her face flushed, her body curled up slightly, and she kept roaring hoarsely... Her husband's puzzlement, different world values from others. The things you care about are ignored by others, just like the things you cherish, your values and beliefs are completely denied by others, and you are told that no one cares, that is a great blow and destruction to a person. (And this mother's performance has the most influence on me, I don't remember the performance when I was forced to do something for a while and couldn't resist, Nobody cared, no one understood, resisted and ineffective... This time from a bystander From the perspective of the reader, I saw the powerlessness and anger of this mother, and she didn't want it. She knew it was very rude and rude, but when her emotions reached a certain limit, she couldn't control it, and she also wanted to stay rational and not be like a Primitives in general...) Even now, I feel that I have a bit of a temper, and I didn't suppress my temper, which is not a sign of maturity, but still the same as a child. In the adult world, this is not acceptable. It is full of hypocrisy, scheming, interests, and doubts. If you don't control yourself, you will never know when you offend people, and you will die in a unclear manner.
After everyone gave up the disguise and vented for a while, they put it on the table, the cell phone of the father who beat the child rang, everything was like a dream, and the ground was in a mess. After venting, everyone still had to return to reality, face reality, and then Life. After tearing off the mask of the adult world, how should they put on the mask and then face each other calmly? When the camera turned, the grass was green, the sky was blue and white, and it was peaceful. And the hamster they care about is safe and sound, not panicking, dying, or being tortured as they thought... And the purpose of their meeting - the children's getting along, is not as they thought, unwilling to communicate, or people are very Violence or something... Yeah, while the adults are red-faced arguing about it, the kids are reconciled.
Very sarcastic...with a sense of black humor, what are the adults arguing about? When people grow up to a certain age, they will form their own set of values and behavior rules, and people are living for this, that is their personal existence value. If someone tries to change, it will cause people's cognitive imbalance and make people feel insecure, so the older you get, the harder it is to change a person's mind. The children's world is not so much right and wrong, only you make me feel unhappy, I will play with you no matter what you do, and I will not play with you if you are not good. The world of children is not as carefree and scheming as we think. It's just that after we have experienced it, the human brain will only leave most of the good memories and beautify it automatically; or, those problems will be looked at a few years later and are not worth mentioning.
Parents always impose their own wishes on their children, which is the phenomenon of most parents, while mothers always control so much that there is no room for rest and no independent self. The father is always absent and has little control over the children. Always play a taciturn role in the child's world, rarely communicate.
However, young people always have good expectations and are not prepared to deal with the trivial matters of living materials; or they do not expect to be so realistic; they step into the grave of marriage. When the passion is gone, what are we left with? - Just a piece of chicken feathers
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