When you reconcile with yourself, the world forgives you

Muhammad 2022-04-23 07:01:57

I was attracted by the poster, and then read it intermittently, as if watching a person walking alone in the wilderness for a long time, as if to wake us up. Life is also a long and lonely road, and many times you need to face it alone.

1. You are not alone

"Into the Wilderness" is like a documentary, recording the story of a girl who embarked on a walk through the desert wilderness alone. She was the only girl in the entire hiking activity. She had no hiking experience and chose to hike because of the bad life. Get some inner answers, and then set off without hesitation.

Halfway through the walk, her toenails fell off because of her shoes, so she had to stop and brutally rip off her toenails. The scream that resounded in the world was also a cry for life; she almost encountered a man who was scheming on the way, luckily She fled in a hurry; she ran into a little boy in the jungle again, and the little boy who lost her father like her sang a song for her in the jungle. Don't forget the family's love for her, let her squat down and cry when she turned around; on the way, she met a walking man who walked fast and told her some news about the location. When she was envious of him walking so fast, But at the next stop, he learned from others that he gave up...

She comes from a family with domestic violence, but her mother has always insisted on not leaving her abusive father and led them to live optimistically. Until her mother died of illness, her world collapsed, and then she got married but ruined it, started messing with all kinds of people, taking drugs.

In this way, she constantly recalled her past life on the walk, constantly thinking about whether those rotten lives were right or wrong for her. All the memories on the way are that she is questioning her heart step by step. She is on the road alone, but she tells others that her real life is more lonely than walking on the road, because no one at home is waiting for her.

The first place that touched me was when I heard the song that the little boy sang for her in the forest, with clear eyes facing her, that child was also another ignored voice in her heart, because of this , will hit her all at once. In our life, we may live like this many times because of the day-to-day life, and at a sudden moment, we wake up and find that we have been ignoring our inner desires and voices. Don't forget the love in your heart, that love may have gone far, but the people who love you still exist in this world, some people are looking forward to your return home, some people are missing you, you are not alone.

2. Life doesn't force you to be terribly bad

The heroine is a person who has lived in a desperate life for a long time. She even suddenly wondered when she became such a rotten person at a certain moment. The movie hit her with the recollections of her on the walk again and again, and also hit me watching the movie. Looking back at the past life, although there is no such painful experience as the heroine, but I will also think of some things that I regret when I look back, and I will cry when I think about it.

As the movie says, if you do it again, maybe you will do it again.

All the mistakes in life that you think about later are the tests of life for you. You may not pass the test this time, and the lesson you will be taught is that you may not make it again in the future, or at least give you a wake-up call. You can choose to condemn yourself all the time, or you can choose to enjoy the beauty of your moment. Life has never forced you to have a very bad life. All directions are your own choices. To a large extent, you have the right to choose your own life.

The second thing that touched me was the confession of the heroine standing on the Bridge of the Gods after walking the entire Pacific Crest Trail. At that time, she already understood the beauty of some of the life she had, and was brave enough to believe that such a bad life would eventually get better. Four years later she married the man who was not far from her on the bridge, and nine years later she had a son with the man. "I only know that I don't have to face it alone anymore, just like fish in water is enough, that's everything. My life, like all life, is incredible, irreversible, sacred, very Tight, very realistic, very close to me, how crazy...let it go. I'd rather be a sparrow than a snail, of course I would if I could."

It is a very big progress for many people to be able to reconcile with themselves after experiencing a lot of things. When we question our hearts again and again, and go on when we carry so much guilt and guilt, maybe life really won’t happen. Be happy one day. Then try to reconcile with yourself, and when you reconcile with yourself, the world will forgive you. No matter how bad you have been in the past, you will still have good possibilities in the future.

3. Gain energy while hiking

This video about trekking reminds me a lot of my experiences trekking in New Zealand. Hiking is a very simple activity, put on a pair of suitable shoes and bring tools and you can start; however, hiking is also a difficult activity, you will want to give up in the middle, you will get separated from people, and sometimes It's a lonely and brave act to just walk and walk and be left alone. The biggest benefit of hiking lies in the feeling of the scenery and the inquiries of the heart during the process of hiking. When you are immersed in the process of dialogue with nature or with yourself, you can slowly draw energy from it, and then feed this power back to yourself, so that when you need it in the future, you can A force will come out to help you.

"After I was lost in the wilderness with grief, I found myself in the jungle." We also occasionally lose our way in life, and finding ourselves back is an important step in leading us to a better life. I have traveled many places and experienced the power of nature in nature. When a person returns to nature and puts himself in nature to think, he will slowly find his lost self.

4. Reconcile with yourself

You may have fallen for a long time, you may have been sad for a long time, or you may have encountered a lot of unhappiness, but it doesn't matter, because every step you take, you are a little farther from the past you. Try to reconcile with your past self, and the world will forgive you and give you a chance to start anew.

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Wild quotes

  • Cheryl: [Cheryl's first inscription on the trail guestbook] "If your Nerve, deny you - Go above your Nerve" - EMILY DICKINSON and Cheryl Strayed.

  • Cheryl: [voiceover] What if I forgive myself? What if I was sorry? But if I could go back in time, I wouldn't do a single thing differently. What if I wanted to sleep with every single one of those men? What if heroin taught me something? What if all those things I did were the things that got me here? What if I was never redeemed? What if I already was?

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