Before closing eyes

Arne 2021-12-16 08:01:06

Recent always pondering this question
we in the end why they came to this world

was young shouting slogans to defend the motherland after learn every day?
Or
after being told to be big to be identified in order to instill an Ivy League or the nation's top100 or 985 or 211 and then find a good job with a good social status and lucrative income between people busy to attend to the real difficult to obtain precious feelings even more difficult to maintain the
then surly adequate preparation and planning
to have a child after the
re-educate him learn to defend the motherland after every day in a small time

watching this movie and later the more experience
I increasingly feeling a lot of things really is not the case that we think has never been so

in really accurate to say before people will prove reincarnation of
our genuineness know that we can only exist in a few years time the world

dozens on how we want to treasure it

is sick cure everything becomes possible to go any difficulties to be overcome
these stereotypes as established in the heart of the mother Sara stubborn as also lie in each individual heart

, but who can guarantee that the disease will be cured or worse than the disease itself happens in the process of being cured of the disease or another might bring a better thing

if the day who really can guarantee arrangements really wrong

that we are kept in as For my own sake, we are afraid of losing, afraid of failure, afraid of a little bit of dissatisfaction, afraid of all negative vocabulary
tests, injury, illness, loss, sadness or death
. Every word here makes us feel palpitations and worry and even try our best to avoid it.

But in the movie or say Life itself has been telling us
just like Kate has been emphasizing
Let it go.

To accept all negative things, with a calm mind, to cherish before losing, rather than to suffer after the

loss less

God gave us these hands may not be for us to get more to fight more to get more

but to use it to seize more

God gives us the ear skin taste buds might also wind blows is not for us to go in war of words more overcome to win more

but to feel more cherished more

of this story had a lot of thin recall silently details are very clever
(there may be more than they want)
such as Kate's father Brian better perception heart perhaps because he is a fireman seen more experienced better understand life and death which is really important is not life and death itself, but rather whether a person in their lifetime wasted no really appreciate the precious life of lies

and As a lawyer, Sara cares more about losing or winning

. In my heart, I feel that I like Dad Brian more. At the same time, I can truly understand all what my mother Sara does

because it is what each of us insists on. the concessions can not

we love someone or something we love him we care about

the how to accept losing him forever

we always put everything as good as it should be mother's day breakfast salty faded we will Complaining; We will be unhappy when the tone of the phone calls from our lover every day or the timing is wrong; we feel chilled if we have more friends' company or give us more intentions;

So we are not satisfied with everything that we have. Mom and Dad are always nagging, so we say harsh words to hurt their lover. The lover in front of them is not beautiful enough or handsome or not gentle enough for someone who had a crush on. So we choose to deceive and conceal the friend's giving. We are too less

than we are facing each other with bad words behind and whether we have really thought that everything is not eternal, these daily bits and pieces may one day pass by in a flash without any mental preparations

I think Kate is unfortunate is also happy
because she knew eventually leave tomorrow, next week, next month, I do not know maybe just a little later
so she has always tried my best to love and to cherish this experience to perceive all the warm and wonderful seconds The strength of
you can always stop at every moment of happiness, regardless of the gains and losses, and whether you waste time, and enjoy it without considering any factors, to savor it, and
always calm down and reminisce about all the beautiful, moving and warm memories of the past. The courage and strength to continue to face the unknown or the pain or torture

is just such a little bit. Perhaps she said goodbye in advance, and is happier and more peaceful than all of us, without regrets.

Unlike many cliché movies about terminal illness, life and death, after weeping and crying. was won then doing the doing
my sister's keeper after crying people are willing to stop and think about myself

at least now I am willing to close their eyes before forced to cherish everything I have is
that we always do not want to lose this face The thing itself is because after the loss, you will realize how precious the lost things are, and you do

n’t want to live. Why not take every minute and second as the last second and devote the remaining decades of life to yourself and yourself without any reservation. If the one you love does not consider whether you will lose, or whether you will make ends meet, love and cherish.

Perhaps the skin bag that we finally find is not for us to spend more and more effort to create magnificent achievements.
It’s the opportunity to feel the best things in the world and walk fearlessly in the temperature and memory of the one you love.







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  • Timmy 2022-03-25 09:01:09

    I was so disappointed. Uh ah ah! ~~~ The impact of the plot is less than one-third of the original, it has become very cliché, orz

  • Virgil 2021-12-16 08:01:06

    Unpretentious and super touching and warm!

My Sister's Keeper quotes

  • [first lines]

    Andromeda 'Anna' Fitzgerald: When I was a kid, my mother told me that I was a little piece of blue sky that came into this world because she and Dad loved me so much. It was only later that I realized that it wasn't exactly true. Most babies are coincidences. I mean, up in space you've got all these souls flying around looking for bodies to live in. Then, down here on Earth, two people have sex or whatever, and bam, coincidence. Sure, you hear all these stories about how everyone plans these perfect families. But the truth is that most babies are products of drunken evenings and lack of birth control. They're accidents. Only people who have trouble making babies actually plan for them.

    Andromeda 'Anna' Fitzgerald: I, on the other hand, am not a coincidence. I was engineered. Born for a particular reason. A scientist hooked up my mother's eggs and my father's sperm to make a specific combination of genes. He did it to save my sister's life. Sometimes I wonder what would have happened if Kate had been healthy. I'd probably still be up in heaven or wherever, waiting to be attached to a body down here on Earth. But coincidence or not, I'm here.

  • Andromeda 'Anna' Fitzgerald: I want to sue my parents for the right to my own body.

    Campbell Alexander: Would you repeat that, please?

    Andromeda 'Anna' Fitzgerald: I want to sue my parents for the right to my own body. My sister has leukemia. They're trying to force me to give her my body parts.

    Campbell Alexander: You're supposed to give her a kidney?

    Andromeda 'Anna' Fitzgerald: She's been in renal failure for months now.

    Campbell Alexander: Well, no one can force you to donate if you don't want to, can they?

    Andromeda 'Anna' Fitzgerald: They think they can. I'm under 18, they're my legal guardians.

    Campbell Alexander: They can't do that.

    Andromeda 'Anna' Fitzgerald: Well, I want you to tell them, because they've been doing it to me my whole life. I wouldn't even be alive if Kate wasn't sick. I'm a designer baby. I was made in a dish to be spare parts for Kate.