Compromise, the film fell into my eyes, which happened to be the theme.
I really like the beginning of the film, a few minutes of footage, the scene where the two meet for the first time, the male protagonist Gary is tongue-in-cheek, with an irresistible, humorous charm, the female protagonist brooke played by Aniston has a big face. It said 'beauty, but also a nice people', and then began to put pictures along with the opening lines. The subtext was that when the main film started, the two of them would spend some days together!
The structure of the film is very simple. First, a night of conflict broke out, a dinner party, a one-person dinner, a boyfriend who is in love with a TV, Brooke's brother who is suspected of being gay, the singing is unbearable, Gary's mouth full of brothers running the train, two people I have to endure it. I don’t know how many such occasions I have endured. When the time is up, the guests disperse. Then the two of them started looking for advice from their buddies and their families. After listening, they came back and used it on each other to see if it worked. They stumbled along the way, not knowing where the answer was.
Brooke is in the living room and the kitchen in the film, and occasionally needs her boyfriend to show a little care and concern. Some people will say that this requirement cannot be satisfied. Gary is really doing his own fault. It's true that her boyfriend plays a very thankless role, he is humorous, yes, kind, maybe, work, a little talented, but he doesn't know how to get along with people, here refers to the kind of mutual trust between a few people , understanding, forbearance and habitual intimacy, not only between men and women.
Very good at making friends, everyone is willing to be friends with them, has a unique personal charm, seems free and uninhibited, but has a strong sense of self-protection in the heart, and does not easily let anyone break into the barrier in his heart, do not He will make compromises for others, always be himself, and always protect himself, but he can only keep himself alone forever.
Gary's buddy's idea is really unreliable, but he does know him well. He said, like you, no matter how hard the 'poor girl' tries, you won't 'let your guard down', she never had a chance, she shouldn't have expected you to compromise. The film translates to 'putting down the shelf', but I think it's closer to unloading the heart wall. The buddy himself wanted to comfort him. The problem was that Brooke had the wrong hope, but he didn't expect to wake up the male protagonist with a stick. Gary didn't know that he had never really been 'with' the girl he liked, because of the fear in his nature, For the fear of excessive intimacy, we have drawn a clear line with everyone around us. From a certain point, we will not interfere with each other, even the people we care about the most.
It's not that he did something wrong in this relationship, but he never entered it. Brooke was beside him with good words and then punches and kicks, finally exhausting all his patience and failing to get the man to take a step forward.
So when he came to his senses, she was a little tired and couldn't handle the move, but he had changed, whether it was with his partner or other people around him, he came out of the self-obsession that he had been stubborn for so many years, and found that How irrational and powerless the Dao barrier exists.
In fact, there are quite a few such people, and I am probably the only one myself. It is best to think carefully about whether there is any wall that needs to be broken in my heart.
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