The first feeling after watching this movie is "understanding", although, I did not have a similar experience. I can't fully agree with all of the heroine's decisions. But I can understand the struggle behind every choice.
The courage to leave home for a foreign country, the vulnerability when homesickness strikes, the low self-esteem when first arriving, the self-confidence when meeting a lover, the simplicity and diligence in Brooklyn, and the pride and vanity when returning to Scotland. These contradictory characteristics are concentrated in the heroine alone. I watch her make choices again and again. Maybe I don't agree with it, but at the same time I can't bear to blame. Because these contradictory qualities are also present in my body, and possibly in every female soul, we can understand.
I especially like the part after the heroine returned to Brooklyn. This part of the heroine's inner contradiction is the strongest. Before leaving, the future that I dreamed of but did not dare to hope for was actually offered to me with both hands after returning, and it was easy to get it. She walked proudly on the streets of her hometown with her head held high, receiving people's attention and praise. Looking at the playboy who had been dismissive of him, he showed humility and even low self-esteem in front of him. She began to be respected, needed, and retained, which greatly satisfied her vanity. Therefore, in the face of such a big temptation, the original firm heart of the heroine also began to shake. I am convinced that she had the idea of staying and picking up this future. Until the mean grocery store owner gave her a blow in the head and completely shattered its dreams.