In fact, there are many times in movies that teach people to grow up. For example, this movie is to teach me to grow up. The couple in the movie are both very good and wonderful people, but when they are together, they are not at all. They can't form a harmonious family, they can't love each other, they can't communicate and communicate calmly, but at the end, the woman leaves and starts a new life; the man hurries into the present life Go; it turns out that there are many people in life who live like this. They torture each other and cannot forgive each other.
If you say it's a way of life, then why aren't they one of them?
A way of life in which right and wrong cannot be judged.
Part 01.
Does marriage have to be thought through?
When I saw this movie, I was thinking: Does marriage need to be thought through? The moment I saw the child, I thought: marriage needs to be thoughtful and thoughtful, and it needs you to think countless times. Although there will still be wrong choices even at the last moment, it still needs you. Countless times of thinking, because the price of choosing the wrong marriage is suffering for the rest of your life, but if you choose the right one, the rest of your life will be happy.
But even when deliberate, marriage can be a situation where the wrong choice is made; disasters in life are unavoidable. Just like Runye in "Ordinary World", although Runyu has worked hard and struggled for her happy life, but in the end Runye still married someone she didn't like, and her marriage was also influenced, Runye After getting married... After her husband experienced a car accident, Runye returned to family life and took up the burden of life. Although Runye 10 million are reluctant, Runye still feels that life is happy.
After all, it is only when life comes to an end that we know whether life is happy or unhappy.
Moreover, it doesn’t matter even if you choose the wrong one. After all, life always has to go on firmly. I hope that when we choose the wrong one, we will have a firm belief in our hearts, move forward bravely and never give up.
Part 02.
So can you leave the child alone?
While watching this movie, I was still thinking: When such a lovely child was left behind, what was going on inside the child's heart? Does the child feel very painful, and whether the child is at a loss in his heart, but after thinking for a long time, I realized that the child is not alone when he feels the existence of love, this is the child's inner world.
So when the heroine abandons the child, although I also fully understand the pain and anxiety in the heroine's heart, although the heroine is meticulous about the child, life is actually short, and sometimes what is missing is missing, no matter how much No matter what, what is missing is still missing, you can’t pull these things back, and you can’t do anything about it.
But I'm thinking about another question: if the mother is not happy and has a mental illness, then the child she brings out will not be happy either.
So, should the child follow the father or the mother?
There is no conclusion. When life moves forward step by step, who knows what is right or wrong?
So, let's go on like this.
Part 03.
What should we do when our mind cannot bear the burden of the family?
In fact, this matter is even more inconclusive, because we really don't know, what should we do when our mind can't bear the burden of the family? For example, in the movie "Mrs. Kramer", when a woman couldn't bear the burden of the family, she ran away from home; when a man couldn't bear the burden of the family, he kept sticking to it; such as "The First Incense" In "The Wind", Ge Weilong couldn't bear the life of losing money and money, so she sold herself and deceived others; for example, in "The Wind", when those revolutionary ancestors led the entire nation forward for their deep beliefs, those with beliefs always Go a little further than those who have no faith.
In fact, if you feel in your heart that you can't make a choice, you might as well stop, take a walk, find your own direction, and let yourself not be so lost.
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