Everyone has an inflatable doll in their heart

Chad 2022-04-22 07:01:16

Some people say that the love of inflatable dolls is just a title party in disguise.
If so, then as a headliner, he was successful because I was attracted to headlines.
Lars and the Real Girl———— Lars and the Real Girl. Lars, who is autistic, cannot get along naturally with others, especially women. He shut himself up in his own spiritual world—beautiful and lonely. Oh, he's a good guy, but he's not a normal person, or he's not a normal person in the eyes of normal people.
Thinking that his days would always pass in such a closed world, by chance, he knew about inflatable dolls. He doesn't use it for lust like other men do. Perhaps to another extent, it is also considered to be a desire to vent, a desire to communicate with people. It's not that he doesn't want to, or he can't. In the face of other people's words, he always panics. Such a girl - a girl who can't speak, can't act is the real girl he can accept. He doesn't have to worry about how to answer her, or whether she will do something he can't handle.
So he treated the inflatable doll as a normal person, taking her to church, to parties, to lake tours, and even to shopping in the hospital to see a doctor. What surprised me was not his strange behavior, but the reactions of people around him when they saw his behavior. After the initial surprise, everyone was willing to sincerely help Lars cure autism, and everyone began to act and treat the doll as a real person, ask her to work, and invite her to parties. When Lars imagined that the doll was about to die, those few knitted sweaters while accompanying Lars really moved me, and they said lightly, "We come here to sit, and people do it when misfortune comes unexpectedly. They come and sit down."
Many people commented on the film as warm. Really warm. That feeling makes me feel very warm.
The female colleague who liked Lars did not give up on Lars because of his weirdness, but kept silently caring for him.
Lars' brother and his wife have always been concerned about Lars
and the grandma who gave Lars a flower, the psychiatrist and all the people in town.
Warmth - the word couldn't be better.
Finally, with the burial of the inflatable doll, Lars invited the female colleague for a walk, and then smiled from the inside out for the first time. It was a different smile than before, because I saw wisdom in that smile.
Maybe he already knew that the inflatable doll was just a dream, or maybe his autism had already been resolved long before he had
said that, and he has digressed. Originally, I wanted to say that there is such a person in everyone's heart, who can satisfy all your fantasies about the opposite sex and meet all your conditions. But that person can only live in your heart. Although no one can replace her, she can't replace anyone.

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Lars and the Real Girl quotes

  • Dagmar: So, tell me about Karin. I don't know her very well.

    Lars Lindstrom: Oh, she's wonderful. Gus and I are very lucky with women - she's wonderful. But she...

    Dagmar: That's okay, let's find you something to read

    Lars Lindstrom: No, it's just... between us?

    Dagmar: Of course.

    Lars Lindstrom: I'm worried about her. I think she has a little problem.

    Dagmar: Oh, well, maybe you shouldn't tell me.

    Lars Lindstrom: No, that's okay. It's just, and I think it's because she's insecure, it's just, she's just always trying to hug everybody. You know, some people don't like that. Some people don't like to be hugged. But she doesn't realize that. She takes it personally, and, it hurts her feelings. I don't know what to do about that. Do you?

    Dagmar: It's such a comfort sometimes, just to have somebody's arms around you. Don't you think?

    Lars Lindstrom: No.

    Dagmar: It feels good.

    Lars Lindstrom: It does not feel good. It, it hurts.

    Dagmar: Oh, like a cut, or bruise?

    Lars Lindstrom: Like a burn. Like when you go outside and your feet freeze and you come back in and then they thaw out? It's like that. It's almost exactly like that.

    Dagmar: Same with everyone?

    Lars Lindstrom: Uh, not really with Bianca. But everyone else

  • Dagmar: Don't you want to be an uncle?

    Lars Lindstrom: Don't you want to be a mom?

    Dagmar: [pauses, whispers] Yes. But I'm not able to have children of my own.