I forgive you, but I don't love you so much

Arjun 2022-04-21 09:01:59

I finally found a chance to finish watching this movie. To tell you the truth, I have seen a lot of three-hour movies, such as Schindler's List, Oude Kebale, etc. After watching it, I still feel like there is no end to it, so I don't think the length is enough. Not a problem, but looking at Adele's life, it will feel long and procrastinated, mainly because there are too many sex scenes.

I'm not a very traditional person, the sex scene of two women should be considered a feast for the eyes, but I looked at it tasteless, fast-forwarded a few paragraphs, the intensity was too strong, and I was tired watching it. Because I am superficial, I have absolutely no idea what to express through sex.

Adele is a very characteristic girl. She is independent and has her own opinions, so she can follow her out of school regardless of the calls of her classmates. Adele knows how to get along with the world alone, and she writes a diary for herself. , to comfort herself, this kind of person can be alone, so before she meets her, she will not silence the love between men and women because of loneliness. It's just instinctive curiosity, and the attempt to have a romantic relationship with her boyfriend is an attempt, not love. When she met Emma, ​​the courage to persevere in her bones showed. She dared to try and was willing to give, just to make herself happier. So with Emma, ​​she toiled all day entertaining her group of friends, just hoping to satisfy Emma and make Emma's friends happy. Because of Emma, ​​she slowly made herself more and more humble. She slowly placed the center of her world on Emma. When she placed her center on others, she would seek her own sense of security through others. , the inevitable lack of security. So Adele is frightened, but she loses Adele, the more worried and insecure, the more afraid, so she needs to find comfort through other people, so she cheated!

Adele and Emma are not of the same class.
Although Adele loves literature, she does not have the courage to insist on her hobbies. She does not have this confidence, so her literary talent can only be reduced to her ability to write a diary to comfort herself. When she went to Emma's house for the first time, she told them that she hoped to be a teacher in the future, because she had experienced a lot in school, gained a lot, and gained something that her parents couldn't teach her, so she wanted to be a teacher , to pass on this harvest, she likes children very much. When she was chatting with Emma, ​​she told Emma that her own academic performance was related to her teachers, and teachers who were inspiring to her would make her progress rapidly, but teachers she didn't like would limit her imagination , so her grades can go from A to failing in one semester...

If her dream is to be a teacher, then she definitely hopes to become a good teacher who can enlighten students' thinking and guide students' imagination. Like a good teacher who could inspire her thinking during her school days. But because she placed the center of her life on Emma, ​​she treated the students with less enthusiasm and care. She only taught the students strictly, instead of guiding them with love, so her classroom was filled with an unpleasant atmosphere. She has worked so hard~

Emma is a very artistic person, and so are her friends, geeks in philosophy and painting. So at the first meeting of friends, Adele could only be reduced to the old mother who corrupted them, pouring wine and making pasta. She was very uncomfortable, because she was out of place, and she couldn't understand what they were talking about, which was really torturous in love life.
When Emma quarreled with people because of her lack of understanding of art, she could only hold a coffee pot and ask her if she wanted coffee. She used the old-fashioned comfort of "it's the same everywhere, I also have friction with my colleagues", and she talked directly to Emma. There is no deep understanding and communication. I don't dare to comment ignorantly that they are together because of sex, but physical attraction plays a huge part in the relationship between them. '

Therefore, when Adele cheated on her, the physical dishonesty made Emma unacceptable, so she regretted breaking up.

When Adele first attracted Emma, ​​Adele had her unique charm, independence, youth, and a love for literature, but slowly, when Adele slowly shifted the center of her life from herself to others, she didn't have that much time. When she used her energy to beautify herself, Emma was still beautifying herself, and she was continuing to work hard for her art. Therefore, as time changed, a more and more beautiful Emma set off Adele's badness.

In the final analysis, there is no difference between same-sex love and opposite-sex love. Both need mutual understanding and support. The important thing is to keep improving yourself, and don’t try to find inner peace and comfort through others.

We should all love others and love ourselves.

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Extended Reading
  • Daphnee 2021-12-01 08:01:26

    Replace the blue girl with an artistic man, this film will be sprayed to death. K is so fond of letting the protagonist eat, dance, and fight. Intuitively, he feels that it is not as good as a millet fish, not tortured and not extreme enough. It is about performance-lesbian has daily life? Many treatments are quite vulgar. Licking some saliva X for twenty minutes, a gang of young people fly to the sky, hey, the heart is not old

  • Beaulah 2022-03-29 09:01:02

    Uncontrolled narrative and footage

Blue Is the Warmest Colour quotes

  • Emma: You still need some practice.

    Adèle: I'll give it all I've got.

  • Emma: Why are you lying?

    Adèle: I'm not lying.

    Emma: Then why are you crying?

    Adèle: I'm not crying.